Love help: Same story, new plot- please help :( - Help.com

:) I feel ya on this one. try out the new cute friend, you might like it.
um, here are really 2 choices you have, and I would recommend picking the one that makes the most sense, and sticking with it no matter how you feel down the road-
1)break contact
things will get awkward after a while when you try to talk later, but it’s really for the best. It’s what I did with an ex, and I really loved her for the time we had no contact. as soon as she called the other night, I was crushed to hear she had a new boyfriend, but after talking to a friend for about 5 minutes and taking a night to myself, I was pretty much better.
choice 2) make it work
try everything in your power to make it work. talk to him, be willing to sacrifice, do anything at all. well, not anything, keep your morals, but you get the point. It would get really frustrating after a while, but if you really want to be together, it will work. sorry I can’t really give details on this one, I haven’t tried it as in depth as I would like, so I’m not really qualified to say this choice is all good
good luck

yeah, but even if you are selfish now, you’ll be a better person for it later, even if you get really hurt. actually, you’ll be better because you were hurt, as long as you can heal. so as long as he isn’t your “one pillar of hope” per say, you’ll be a better person in the end no matter what happens, so no worries :)

also, just as a side not, I just got a huge urge to say hakuna matatah…
I’m gonna go watch the lion king now.
what?
don’t judge.