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My bf wants to see other people, what i do?

We’ve been dating for 3 months and i love him but last week he said things have been different since we had sex and he wants to spice things up and he wants to have a 3some so what i do?? i don’t want to have a 3some wit some other girl or boy (he is bi) i just want to be with him forever he told me we would be together forever. what i do? should i just give up? or should i tell him my felings?

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Miss Jessica Bunny offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 26 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (5 hours, 9 minutes after post)

He used you for sex basically, it’s ok, use him back :)

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Don’t have a threesome if you don’t want to. Tell him that. If you guys want to be together forever, then you should be able to tell him and he should understand. Don’t do something you’ll feel gross about later.

If it’s what you want, then have fun. But if not, don’t do it.

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