Never Have a Bad Date AGAIN!
Attract Nice People All the Time!
The following steps will help you create healthy and happy relationships.
1. Learn how to listen to your spirit. Your spirit tells you everything in an instant.
2. Believe what he/she tells you. I met a nice gent and during our first conversation he told me he was indecisive. It’s hard to date someone who is indecisive. So, I didn’t. Men & women are often real about who they are, we just don’t listen.
3. Never date (that means not even one date) if he/she isn’t transparent. That means he/she provides you with a home, work and cell numbers. Is he verifiable? Is he or she an open book? Does his job have a good website? Most importantly, did he volunteer this information? If a man isn’t transparent, I don’t deal with him for one second. (THIS WOULD SAVE WOMEN 90% OF THEIR HARDSHIP). Why must he volunteer this information? If he give you all his numbers, it means he is serious. If he doesn’t, he just wants to sleep with you.
4. Raise your standards. You deserve the best. Only date men/women with exceptional character, kindness, generous heart, open minded, and emotionally healthy. This takes time. We are all divine Gods and Goddess, act like one!
5. Watch how he/she treats other people. Is he consistently kind, loving, responsible, calm, etc.
6. Does he/she have friends? Meet his/her friends. Are they respectful?
7. Does he/she love self? This is crucial. How do you know? Does he/she honor self? Does he do what he loves? Can you feel the love in his home? Does his friends love him? If he/she is working a job they hate… he/she isn’t loving himself. Does he/she have a long-term plan?
8. Take it slow. This will tell you everything about him/her. It takes me about six months to a year before I get sexual with someone. Why? Very few men will hangout and wait, only the serious gent will invest that type of time. This is the best advice I can give anyone!!! If he or she isn’t consistent in dating you… he calls you once monthly or takes you out a couple of times monthly… let him go. Real dating means several pre planned dates weekly. I had a boyfriend and he would plan our dates up to two months in advance.
9. People!!! Ask for what you want. I teach people this simple concept for a living. You can have what you want, just ask for it. Know what you want in a person, this will save you thousands of hours of your precious life. I can speak to a gent for 20 minutes on the phone and know if I should go on a date. I simply ask him a few questions. Before dating, what do you want? DON’T GO ON A DATE… SPEND A FEW MINUTES ON THE PHONE.
10. Great places to meet amazing people: meetup.com; volunteer (the best place), the arts, join an organization, SCHOOL, travel clubs, events, conferences, take up a sport and the list is endless. Just get creative.
11. Become your BEST to attract the BEST! Get your teeth fixed. Workout. Get your hair done. Be clean. Dress nicely and appropriately. LADIES, MEN DON’T CARE FOR TIGHT AND REVEALING CLOTHING… so, get dressed. Look like a lady. MEN, EMBRACE COURTSHIP… LADIES LOVE BEING COURTED! Ladies, men love being spoiled, cook him a nice meal and massage his scalp. Effortless & simple.
12. Most importantly, always be kind to people and tell the truth. I would never date a man for a free dinner, outing or trip. That’s called using someone. Men, stop sleeping with women you don’t have intentions on dating. That’s called using another human being. We are all sources of energy (conduits of energy) what you put out has a cause an effect. So, let spread love. There is nothing like an authentic empowering love. THERE IS NOTHING LIKE MAKING LOVE WITH A PARTNER WHO SEES YOU, APPRECIATES YOU AND WHO CELEBRATES YOU!
13. Ladies and gents, expect the best from people. Change your attitude to kindness, softness and love. Project love and you will attract it. Everyone is different, so, expect the best. There are amazing men and women everywhere.
14. Leave the past behind. No one wants to here the past… enlighten them with a terrific present. (Live in the Now!)
15. Become interesting, whole and fun! Surprise him or her, read, take up hobbies, learn about a new culture, etc. Become the person you want to marry!
I hope this helps! There are great people everywhere!
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