i want to have sex but im scared

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i want to have sex but im scared

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21yrovg 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years ago (23 minutes after post)

I’m 21 and in the same situation. Persevere, if you find someone you love, they will be accepting and loving of your nerves. hang in there as i do every day. I’m sure it will be a wonderful experience although sorry I’m not as experienced myself so i can’t give you more help. best of luck and enjoy the ride :)

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allieepoo 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years ago (25 minutes after post)

hmmm. im 15 and i understand but i guess u wont b scared in the moment. also, if not, just wait til u find that special someone

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Dr. Ralph 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years ago (34 minutes after post)

You should be scared… it will change your life. There are soooo many bad things that can come from sex and soooo many good things also. AIDS, herpes, pregnancy are all extremely serious considerations. If you are not a virgin on her wedding night use a condom. Just in case you were not paying attention USE A LATEX CONDOM. More information about your age and relationship status would help bunches with the answers…

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LocoLamigra31 21 #
US | 4 years ago (36 minutes after post)

I lost my vcard to a hot girl in a drunken 1 night stand…was i scared not until later cause i remembered i forgot a condom…point being stuff happens just go with how you feel…

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WhiteLoomCrows 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years ago (39 minutes after post)

If the poster is a chick, i’m not sure dr ralph is gonna help much, cuz mostly chix are just scared of pregnancy, and… honestly, everyone is scared of gettin torn up and stuff. Well, that’s all preventable with the birth control methods and stuff, but mainly chicks just cope with the rippage by gettin totally trashed beforehand. So I’ve seen and heard. Not the way I’d suggest, but whatever helps, I guess

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amberdoughty1 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years ago (50 minutes after post)

i am 16 and still virgin but i feel like a weird for still being but i see my sister how sex changed her and my friends i think it is way to over rated
after you have sex that is all you have on your
think about how sex change your family and friend
do you want that

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Anonymous #
4 years ago (56 minutes after post)

I waited until I was almost 20 and I thought she was the “one” needless to say don’t rush it. You will be nervous your first couple times but if its with someone whom you love and that loves you it should be fine.

LocoLamigra31 21 #
US | 4 years ago (18 hours, 57 minutes after post)

amberdoughty1 wrote:
i am 16 and still virgin but i feel like a weird for still being but i see my sister how sex changed her and my friends i think it is way to over rated
after you have sex that is all you have on your
think about how sex change your family and friend
do you want that

Usually after a girl has sex for the first time she wants it more and more and more…even more then the guy does…but it eventually wears off..

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

i am only 13 and everyone calls me a slag **** and whore but i anit the thing is i have a boyfriend and he wants too start doing stuff like that ii wanna too but scared init what do ii do.. go with him and do it or just try too get out it all the time?
i dont want too loss him though.

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amy.louise.jeffer #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 5 months ago (7 months, 1 week after post)

You are wayy to young. Dont do something you will regret. Just take it slow, youre young theres no rush. Im 16 and me and my boyfriend are talking about having sex for the first time but havent agreed anything yet. We are taking our time, and thats what i think you should do to. Theres no need to rush. Savouring it will make it even better when the time comes. Dont do anything you regret.

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masonmckee10 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 year, 4 months after post)

well me and my girlfriend are 14 we talked about it we where both scared but some how i got it all right i did it in all the right parts and missed the wrong parts werid huh?

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