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I feel depressed.

I don’t understand what’s going on with a guy I’m dating. He’s been super busy- and rightfully so, he holds a few different high profile jobs. Hasn’t been answering my texts much, but later in the day will pick up and call me. I feel lonely and wonder if he’s cheating or if it’s just my own insecurities.

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Chickens offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

How often do you text him?

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jewels.griffi offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

I’m not suicidal

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sum offline Verified User (7 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Let him know ho wyou miss him and how you love him and wonder what is keeping you two apart.

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jewels.griffi offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

we usually text a few times during the day and for a long time at night

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Chickens offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

I would think he either wants space, or.. hes annoyed with for some reason

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jewels.griffi offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

then why would he call me?

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unsoshable offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

Ask him. Tell him how you feel. If he can’t handle what your saying, he doesn’t deserve you!

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onidn offline Verified User (6 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

It could be you two have different priorities. Maybe you’d like to date someone who doesn’t work so much?

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doesntrlymatte offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Tell him how you feel, and what’s been on your mind.
If he cares, he will do something to let you know he loves you

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6 months, 4 weeks ago (19 hours, 6 minutes after post)

dont feel insecure. even though the world rejects you, god will always love you.

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onidn offline Verified User (6 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (19 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
dont feel insecure. even though the world rejects you, god will always love you.

I don’t think I would go so far as to say the world is doing any rejecting here.

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sum offline Verified User (7 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (19 hours, 13 minutes after post)

onidn wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
dont feel insecure. even though the world rejects you, god will always love you.

I don’t think I would go so far as to say the world is doing any rejecting here.

thats abusive psychologicle manipulation to sell religion =/

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