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This mothersday I would have been 11weeks pregnant.

Now im a mother with no child to hold, I have to watch all the happy mothers get little cute things from there kids and see pregnant woman go out to eat with there happy little familys but me its just anther day filled with more pain then anyone will realize. I wake up everyday thinking this is a joke and I still have my baby.. I live in a nitemare and the only way I can get away from it is to go to sleep… I feel like its my felt, a mother needs to protect there baby and I didnt … ppl say I had a miscarrage but I feel like I killed my baby… and merder is a sin so does that mean im going to hell?…. I hate my life this world… my baby didn’t do anything to everbody why take him/she away? Take me… I hate saying im a childles mother…

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

Hey! I am so sorry that this happened to you! I can’t imagine what it’s like! But please know that it’s not your fault… You had no control over what happened. You didn’t kill your baby! And God knows that. Try not to spend your days in bed though. Try to be strong! I know you can get through this. It doesn’t mean you have to forget about him/her… I know you can’t. But now you have to live your life to the fullest… if not for you, then for your unborn baby. Live his/her life as well!

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

Miscarriage is the body’s way of telling you it is not ready to carry a baby to term… or that the baby is not meant to be… It is not murder…. i know this is how you may feel but think of all the women out there that have gone through the same thing… i’m sure it’s difficult enough for them without the idea that they may have murdered their baby in some way.
Your body has showed that it can become pregnant and when the time is right and the baby is healthy you will become a mum… a lot of women never get that in life…. and some have to go to great lenghts to achieve it… Some women have actually held their babies for hours, days, weeks or months and then lost them to illness or sometimes in the cruelest of circumstances for no apparent reason at all…. they must go through a living hell every day.

I’m not trying to belittle what you feel at the moment but please stop dweling on something that you can’t change and just wasn’t meant to be… Life goes on…. The chances are you will go on to have healthy lovely children… Count your blessings.

If you really can’t shake off what you are feeling go and seek help from your doctor as i suspect this is something more than a miscarriage and you may be suffering from depression that has been triggered by your experience. God bless.

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