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Currently I have been with someone for over 2 months.

I really love him and he loves me too. Sometimes I really off with him and I push him away but I dont understand why I do it becaue I love him with all my heart. I know I’m going to loose him and it’s going to be the worst thing ever. I want to know how I can show him that I appreciate him and he really is the love of my life because he really doesn’t deserve the way I’ve been treating him some of the time. Help!!!

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Anonymous #
7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Two months with someone… there is no way that early into a relationship you can be sure that he is the love of your life… or that he will even be around this time next week…. slow down…. relax….. enjoy the relationship for what it is…. eight weeks of getting to know someone better…. 56 days of being around someone you enjoy the company of.

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Lavis Knight offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I agree with Anon, take your time it has only been 2 months.

If you are pushing him away you really need to try to analyze why you are doing it. Is it a certain emotion? Is it something he does? If you do not know why then you may be doomed to repeat it over and over.

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lucky8 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (53 minutes after post)

Love has no time limit, you can’t help who u fall for and when it happens. Make him a nice dinner…. or write him a poem.

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matthewstuart3 offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (2 hours, 46 minutes after post)

I think your ‘off’ behavior is a your in built defense mechanism coming into play because you are afraid of losing him and don’t want to get hurt.. it’s almost as if you setting yourself up for the worst with him. just relax and enjoy the relationship. Be open and honest, and you won’t go wrong.

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Pac's Queen offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (5 hours, 27 minutes after post)

matthewstuart3 wrote:
I think your ‘off’ behavior is a your in built defense mechanism coming into play because you are afraid of losing him and don’t want to get hurt.. it’s almost as if you setting yourself up for the worst with him. just relax and enjoy the relationship. Be open and honest, and you won’t go wrong.

I agree that because I’ve been hurt in the past I might be pushin him away 2 save myself from making it happen again. Also before we got together I had ended communication with someone who I cared about greatly and I dont know if I’m taking it out on him. But I’m scared I’m going to loose him. Maybe I should take him out

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Pac's Queen offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (5 hours, 29 minutes after post)

lucky8 wrote:
Love has no time limit, you can’t help who u fall for and when it happens. Make him a nice dinner…. or write him a poem.

I think both of those are great ideas. I’ll write him a song and take him out to dinner and we can talk and get to know each other better because it seems that I possibly fell in love with him before I got to know him very well and now everythings coming out

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