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how do you ask a guy for a hug?

i really like this guy and he likes me back and we see eachother a lot and we havent hugged yet, and i really want to. how do i ask?

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matthewstuart3 offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

You don’t ask, you just go for it, if he really likes you back there’s nothing to lose is there? you could start by patting his back slightly then see how he looks to feel with that.

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

you don’t ask… just hug him… some people don’t like being touched like that so he might react weirdly but chances are he will just hug you back.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 88 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

I had the same answer. You don’t ask, you just start walking towards him with your arms spread apart and grab him! I promise he’ll grab back…

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Lavis Knight offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 43 minutes after post)

If he likes you back it should be pretty safe to just hug him ^^

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downman1 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 49 minutes after post)

yea just go for it

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peaceluvsoccer offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 4 hours after post)

I hug my best guy friend all the time! or he just hugs me. the piont is you dont ask you just hug him. i usually hug him when im saying goodbye.

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shilpadud offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (5 months after post)

autually it just depends on the type of a guy!
if he cool and hugs everyone then go ahead! if he doesnt usually hug anyone, then just try in a private place first!
hope i helped! :)

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