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Ok so im 16 right and ive never had a girlfriend.

But im pretty popular, i skateboard, im super good at basketball and ive been told pretty hot. but the one girl i actually like said she was into more popular guys and idk how to even talk to her to tell her that i really do like her. Its so dumb i hate my school because theres like 300 people in the whole school.

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needssomehelp offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

that’s a pretty small school. don’t sweat it, i know you probably hate this answer but your still young. and you’ll probably run into more girls that you like. i guess sometimes they just come around when you least expect it.

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bballplayermike offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

Dude. chill. Lots of people dont have girlfriends when there 16 not even 17 maybe 18..just slow down…you’ll find somebody sooner or later .

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carpe_noctem offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

hey, i’ll be seventeen this yea and nobodys even looked at me like i’m worth going after. hon, your soo not alone. thing is, there is an average of maybe… 50/300 girls who would love to go out with you? heres the secret, look. dont go for the average ppl you would, take a look at some ppl you may never even noticed before.

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imber offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

She is into more popular guys? In that case, you don’t need a girl who thinks like that (sorry to say this, but that’s the way I see it). Don’t worry about it, I’ve had some really short and nonsencical relationships, but only when I turned 18 have I found a good and stable one. Just wait for the real thing and don’t go thinking it was already time you’ve found someone.

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carpe_noctem offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

theres alot of fish in the sea, just remember: the shollower you are, the shallower your sea. hence any lack of fish. go a little deeper, and youl find a rare and exotic fishy with a lot to offer.

n0tacr00k offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

best not to get into dating, once you’re in, you’re stuck in it as an addiction or end up bitter your life.

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gracefulme63 offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

It sounds like she was letting you know what/who she likes, so I wouldn’t pursue her futher. Look for someone who is not in it for popularity. But most of all don’t be in such a hurry, if your a nice guy she is out there.

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imber offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

dreaming weird wrote:
theres alot of fish in the sea, just remember: the shollower you are, the shallower your sea. hence any lack of fish. go a little deeper, and youl find a rare and exotic fishy with a lot to offer.

=) I like the way you’ve put it. And I also agree.

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carpe_noctem offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

thanx it felt pretty deep.

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