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I HATE being the middle child!

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Serioustly.I mean the older one gets to be left alone and can doo as they please as their ‘old enough to look after their self’ While the younger one gets everything they want.

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fractal.scatter online Verified User (1 year) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 362 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (0 minutes after post)

Sucks to be you then.

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usurper offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

No. Being the youngest is the worst. You are forever dubbed as the useless one. Can’t do anything for yourself, everyone is older than your therefore gets first dibbs on everything. And You always get stuck in the middle seat. And people always say “Oh you dont know what your talking about” cause your the littlest. And they knew you when you were useless and in diapers.

There’s a glimpse at that other role you dont have to be in.

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b00 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Yeaa but youngest get everything they want

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

Tell me about it. I’m middle too.(high five. Sorry couldn’t resist)

Unfortunately, not much we can do about it -sigh-
But then again, my sister hates being youngest, cus she is always treated like a baby. Don’t know if your younger sibling/s share/s that viewpoint.
And my older brother can’t handle the responsibility of age.
Middle is good in a way because you get to give advice to your kid bro/sis, and get advice from your older bro/sis.

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b00 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Lol it is kinda good cuz they both love me and hate each other. But still sucks on the parent part.

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downman1 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

yea it’s tough. I am too. I’m at school now and i think I’m more mature then my older sister. But you can’t get discouraged. If you don’t like home… go out. get coffee go hang out with friends. Suburbia sucks but it is what you make it.

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b00 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Yea but im in england and its 11:30 pm here, so getting out isnt much of an option right now

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downman1 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

i know but you know what i mean

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9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

b00 wrote:
Lol it is kinda good cuz they both love me and hate each other. But still sucks on the parent part.

Lucky you! I didn’t get any advice. What I did was learn from their mistakes so that I didn’t have to make them, and also didn’t get the consequences.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

ya that may be true but there are also really bad things about being both yhoungest & oldest. oldest r depended on 2 do EVERYTHING and be responsible. the youngest is treated like a baby and is always said to, “you have NO idea what your talking about.” just be thankful. u can’t change the fact that yer middle child, so don’t panic or complain…!!!!!!!!!!!!

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8 months, 4 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Here’s my life as the older child: http://help.com/post/275448-my-brothe…
our family was split in two groups of kids. In birth order I shared middle.
I was oldest girl and most responsible for everybody else. It was/is no picnic.

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grbghp offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

there is a very funny song about this on sesame street
but i couldn’t find it to link… anyone?

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

I’m an only child. I’ll gladly change places with you. You can have my room (I have my own room, of course), my TV, all my athletic equipment, and everything else I own. Just let me have your brothers.

Imagine it’s raining out and you have nobody to play with. Or imagine its evening and all your friends have gone into their house. Being an only child is very lonely. I’ll gladly change places with you.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

i’ve been a middle and a youngest, and being youngest was so much better. At the time, I thought I was treated by a baby, but becoming a middle child was the worst thing that’s ever happenned to me. I love my sister, but I wish she was older than me. Parents hearts don’t really get bigger when they have more children. When drunk, they’ve actually admitted by dad prefers my sister and my mum prefers my brother.
DO NOT EVER HAVE THREE CHILDREN, EVER.

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1animefan4ever offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (8 months after post)

god i hate being the middle child…blamed for everything that ur younger sibling does and since my older brother is the stupidest person on earth…my parents basically have my life planned out for me..and when they die they are giving everything to my brother..and when i have friends over and my younger sister comes into my room and i tell her to get out..my parents say just leave her alone..fyi she is a year older than me so she shouldn’t be treat like she 7 meaning don’t let her do wutever she wants..and everything i get she gets..and everything i get my brother sells..also brother dates basically all ur friends…and sister wants to hang out with u and ur friends…i feel like younger siblings are stalkers and not the good kind

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An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (8 months, 1 week after post)

being in the middle is okay. i’ll tell you all who i really can’t stand. Only children. they are all so ******* selfish and greedy.

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