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My ex-girlfriend is pregnant with my child.

I’m 21 & I suffer clinical depression. She wants to start a family with me but she’s my ex for a reason! We have nothing in common & we bicker all the time. She’s asking me to go against doctr’s advice & get a job & provide, & be cured overnight. And to move out within the next couple days. Do I go & maybe live an unhappy life, or do I live with the baggage & guilt of being a single man with a child somewhere. What do I do?!!

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IDon'tEverQuit offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 196 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

I’m sorry, that’s rough. But you do have a responsibility now, a responsibility to your child. Step up.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

first thing u gotta do is to make sure ,,, that that kid is urs ,,, and if he turns out to be urs ,,,, u should step up … and start to do ur best for that baby !gd luck ,,, life is tough

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Maybe the child will give you back some meaning in your life

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 months, 4 weeks after post)

i’m seventeen and i’ve never met my father and it’s been so hard knowing that there is a guy out there who is my dad who basically abandoned me before he even knew me. i understand that it’s not what you want and everything but how do you think that kid is going to feel when they realize why their father isn’t a part of their life?

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