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Sleeping with my ex boyfriend?

! What does he want?
We lived together for 3 years, had issues with communication etc., I moved out. In a week after that I broke up with him, it was all my emotions. I did not mean to do that. I love him with all my heart. And I know he loves me too. We see each other 1-2 times a week, talk almost every day. Every time I see him we are having sex. But he is making me feel so bad, reminding me all the time that I broke up with him and he is not my boyfriend anymore. What does he really want? Does he want to be together again but just need a break, or just using me for sex?

And we talked. We decided not to have sex till we decide what is going on with our relationship. But it doesnt really work…And he told me its not guarantee that we will back together again, but he hopes so. And he asked if I want him to be my boyfriend again…

But I love him and did not want to break up. We were going to work thigns out. I know he loves me too. He is telling me that every day. We were fighting a lot before that break up point, but non of us wanted to separate.

Thats really hard to decide on my own. He would call me now in the middle of the day (that he’d never done before) and just tell me that he loves me. Or called at 2am last night to tell me the same. And then I talked to him and he was so cold that I just wanted to run away and cry…May be because his friend was there…I dont know….

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7 months ago (11 hours, 5 minutes after post)

:( I know how you feel.

I don’t know your situations, but I think he’s trying to keep his options open. He says he loves you, but why hasn’t he moved towards making you guys back together. I’m in the same boat and what i’ve realized is that if he wants to be with me, he’d try to pull us together. We try not to have sex, we try to date and make things better but we’re just not how we once were. I’m not sure if thats how you feel, but if you love him and want things back to how they were…just tell him. Honest and straight to the point. if he doesn’t give you a straight answer, then take a deep breath and move forward. Stay friends and just remember that you guys are together to enjoy eachothers happiness and company nothing more. and if you want more than what he’s giving you, there’s someone in the world that will give you that happiness. Let him know that you can move on without him.

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