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i only wanted this to be a ‘testing the waters’ relationship.

okay so i got my first boyfriend on the 22 of april. so that would be 13 days.

im 13.

and we havent kissed yet. and i havent even had my first kiss yet.

But i just really wanted this relationship to experiment,you know what i mean? but now he used to call me babe and hot/hottie and stuff. but now he’s calling me ‘beautiful’ and all my friends are telling me guys only say that when they like REALLY REALLY like a girl!

and tonight over txt he said ‘i love you’!!!! i dont wanna say anything i dont mean! so i called my friend and she said to just type this:

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 135 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

If you never intended this to be serious, you really should have given him forewarning.

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color my world! edited this post 6 months, 4 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

i only wanted this to be a ‘testing the waters’ relationship.

okay so i got my first boyfriend on the 22 of april. so that would be 13 days.

im 13.

and we havent kissed yet. and i havent even had my first kiss yet.

But i just really wanted this relationship to experiment,you know what i mean? but now he used to call me babe and hot/hottie and stuff. but now he’s calling me ‘beautiful’ and all my friends are telling me guys only say that when they like REALLY REALLY like a girl!

and tonight over txt he said ‘i love you’!!!! i dont wanna say anything i dont mean! so i called my friend and she said to just type this:

color my world! edited this post 6 months, 4 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

i only wanted this to be a ‘testing the waters’ relationship.

okay so i got my first boyfriend on the 22 of april. so that would be 13 days.

im 13.

and we havent kissed yet. and i havent even had my first kiss yet.

But i just really wanted this relationship to experiment,you know what i mean? but now he used to call me babe and hot/hottie and stuff. but now he’s calling me ‘beautiful’ and all my friends are telling me guys only say that when they like REALLY REALLY like a girl!

and tonight over txt he said ‘i love you’!!!! i dont wanna say anything i dont mean! so i called my friend and she said to just type this:

color my world! offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

i know… but now i feel like im locked in. and i dont want to be forced to say something i dont wanna say….

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 135 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Can never be forced to say anything. Do not lie. Tell him about this.

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An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

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Belief offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Roslindale, MA, US | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

You know, in my experiene, when I was at that age, and I would say similiar things. I didn’t truly mean love: in all it’s encompassing glory. It just meant, I liked the person, alot. Don’t make a mountain out of a hill, he probably just likes you. Your friends most likely know as little about what he’s truly feeling then you seem to at the moment. You should relax, and if you do what COmmander Ikari says you may feel better and have a better idea of how to proceed. His advice was sound, you should follow it.

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