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My girlfriend is depressed.

She has been homeless for 3 months because her house was foreclosed. She’s only 14. She can’t stay at my house because my parents don’t like the idea of us sleeping at the same time in the same house. I know, their crazy. She is extremely sad. She lost almost everything she owned. All she has is her journal and her favorite doll from when she was a baby. She needs help.

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Golden Jack75 offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

so where is she staying?

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Golden Jack75 wrote:
so where is she staying?

Her friend’s house.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Where are her parents?

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usurper offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

All you can do is comfort her. Do things for her that make her happy. What does she like to do? Plan a little day for her or something. Remind her that you care, because when stuff like that happens, sometimes we forget!

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Chrissyqueen99 offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

the economic crisis will eventually end and she will probably be able to get some of her stuff back.

I agree with the guy above. Keep comforting her

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mattsithebes offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (5 days, 12 hours after post)

Sucks to be you

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alexanderlutho offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

DO your best to care for her. Its probably going to be hard if you cant meet her in person but when u do hug her all you can and make every second count. Be there for her 24/7. Do little things for yourself tho. Its hard to deal with depressed people .

=3

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