science help: Anyone ever wonder if there is a scientific explanation to why some people get exactly what they want so easily? - Help.com

Ha ha ha ha - no. Some people are born into a comfy spot. Some people aren’t. There’s no point in trying to make sense of such things - there is no sense in it.

Truth is stranger than fiction, but it is because Fiction is obliged to stick to possibilities; Truth isn’t. - Mark Twain

Does anyone really get what they want?

Its both. nature and nurture, in my opinion. they’ve been trying to pick one over the other for years, why cant we just decide its a combination?

I really dont know. Maybe its all a bunch of haphazard coincidences. Maybe it IS luck. There is no rhyme or reason to any of it. And if there is, i’d ******* like to know already!!!

But in my opinion, we are born into our lives and from than on all we really have to do is learn to accept our circumstances. One you just accept the cards you have been dealt, you can control yourself and your own choices, therefore creating your own path.

Your asking why humans “want it all”, basically? We’re curious by nature and we like things that make us feel good about ourselves.

WHY? Your going to have to look into psychology, perhaps it holds this answer.

It is scientific….power of attraction… read the book ‘the secret’
like attracts like
good to good
bad to bad
Simple as that.

Darqnyss731 wrote:

ameliaearthlin wrote:
It is scientific….power of attraction… read the book ‘the secret’
like attracts like
good to good
bad to bad
Simple as that.

how then would you explain that like also attracts the unlike…good to bad, bad to good?

Its more in depth than my real quick summary.
I could type in a whole lotta stuff, but .. http://www.thesecret.tv/

Its basic physics. It has a lot to do with energy I think…

If i found my Crystal Ball i could tell you how it works, but i lost it and cant remember were.In my case i have to bloody work for it and still don’t get it right..

Just so u know, I like too many bad things to be a true follower of the ‘law of attraction’ told in the secret. Hence why Im not healthy and rich lol

I too believe in energies. Everything and everbody has one.
Our bodies hold energy, they may die but energies dont.

A nice ‘deep’ post… if u have time and feeling like pondering

Darqnyss731 wrote:
i see…now do you feel that this curiousity can traced back to a biological substance in the human anatomy?

I’ve been reading the introduction to philosophy - and as I have noted, we are notoriously curious and have been for years, perhaps it is why we excel. We are proving our curiosity right now as we continue to type and ask question that we know we dont have the answers to.

We seek answers on science, God, religion, mathematics etc…I wonder, has anyone explored if we have a genetic code for curiosity?

amelia what is wrong with you health wise ? By the Way money is not everything.Health is..

Barbyman wrote:
amelia what is wrong with you health wise ? By the Way money is not everything.Health is..

M.S, but I am fighting it and havent stopped farming.
There has just been a new medication announced, that is about 2 years away from being available in NZ. It will heal damage and prevent attacks. I’ll b fine.

that is what i want to hear .Your mind can heal a lot .a few weeks ago we were on the South Island .It was beautiful we done 2500 km in one week by Car .Loved every bit.Beautiful Place

Barbyman wrote:
that is what i want to hear .Your mind can heal a lot .a few weeks ago we were on the South Island .It was beautiful we done 2500 km in one week by Car .Loved every bit.Beautiful Place

Yeah its beautiful down there.. but cold!
Ive been to the gold coast for 4 days. I loved the weather, birds and plants in Australia, but as a country girl I found the amount of people there a bit much.
I like the prawns there!!!!!
The power of the mind is huge. It can save u or kill u.

well next time you come back to Coolangatta let me know and you can come and visit..

cool. Wheres Coolangatta? Is it rural?

Coolangatta is the Airport of the Gold Coast I live 15 min from there..

lol, I am so country. I will if I ever go there again, you guys just have sooo many people! Well if your ever in NZ again and want to be rural for a bit, I live in a house in the bush, 15 from martinborough.. famous for its wines. 1 hour froom wellington.

Before i retired i lived outside Syney on 5 Acres we were in Trotting Racing over 25 years in the Game i loved it..

I believe that when you stop seeking to “want” and just let everything be as it is, then things come into your life rather smoothly. Its like you can’t think of being happy or want to be happy you can only “be” happy.

It’s all about mindset. You can get whatever you set your mind too, some people just have the mindset that when I come across obsticals I will work a way over under across or around them others just turn back and give up. Some will sit in front of the obstial with millions of ways to overcome it and just not put them into action. Those of us across the obstical don’t get how some people can’t see the way across when it’s so simple to just open your mind and get what you want

you assume people are all here on earth for the same reason and in a broad sense they are and that is to learn, but to assume every ones lesson will be the same and have the same books to learn from so to speak is wrong,so what you see as people getting more than others is only fate makeing the next steps of there lesson possable. in short the lesson of kings is difrent to that of porpers and every thing in between.

peace2joj wrote:
just be so kind whith ur parents when u want something and at 5 min its in ur hands!! trust me i do this all the time

Ya… dumb.

My dad has 6 brothers and 1 sister. My dad seemed to be the only one who got the short end of the stick. So growing up i didnt have much, and all my relatives got just what they wanted when ever they wanted it. But thats where the difference comes in. I didnt need more. Why have so much stuff when you cant take it with you when you die? I think people that just want more more more are dumb. I honestly believe you need to work for what you have or you will never appreciate it and you will always take things for granted.

I do believe it is human nature to want more and more but im not one of them, at least not completely. Yes there are things i want and things i would like to have and i work for them and save up enough till i can afford them.

I believe there is a certain luck factor and I believe it is genetic. For example, when I was younger my parents would go to vegas my mother would do very well at the slot machines shed win money hand over fist, my father would do nothing but play the machines, and he would lose hand over fist as fast as she won. (she’d get bored winning and eventually theyd quit and do other things) but its like she catches all the breaks, and my dad cant catch any. now here’s where things get weird. where luck is concerned, I tend to be a “break even steven” I never fall behind the luck curve but I never get ahead of it really either. I lost $150 of my total spending limit for gambling.. which was more than 150 but not significantly more, and in the ammount of time Id set for myself before I was to stop I made $150 back.

lol, Yeah like our lives are some kind of rpg. Oh my intelligence is 50 and my luck is like 4 oh and I just leveled up my agility haha =p

Problem is Phantom gentleman some people think they can rely souly on luck when you can get very far without it. My whole family had awful rubbish luck, I battle past it and know I can get still work my **** off to get somewhere in life, I am already doing better than my family and have my own business, I like to think thats from all the hard work I have put in and nothing to do with luck, especially with the luck I have I would have gotten nowhere by now

when you want something so bad, even the universe will conspire to help you get it (but you have to do your part, and it is not that easy!)

well, living where i do there is a system that some people have built to get a free ride out of life-I have been told this by some of those in the system-I choose to do things my way and work until I drop, then I might try to get into the system if it means the difference between having a roof over my head or not-Some people just get by that way, and their children are born into the system and taught the system-I have supported many others by paying taxes, and they live in better homes than I do and drive better vehicles. They have medical care and money to buy their booze and cigarettes-I just don’t care anymore-i do what I think is right-and then some people are born into a world where their job is to “shop”. That’s what one of my ex-friends told me her job was! okay, I’m bustin my *** and your job is to shop-I finally found peace and my life is okay, but I work very, very hard at my job-

Darqnyss731 wrote:

colletta. wrote:
there is an explanation, but it isnt scientific. the people that always get what they want really dont… they just make themselves want what they get.

This was the point of my post…the possibility of “luck” whether good or bad…has a biological even genetic origin…

How? Prove it.

for the rich and famous, they could get what they want “easily” but are they truly happy with that.

something worth it takes time and effort. that you want it so bad that even the universe will conspire to help you get it. that God will allow it to happen. that indeed nothing is impossible.

A great scientist once said this about “luck” when asked a question about it, he said

“I believe that luck comes to you, whether you believe in it or not”

so in a roundabout way, luck does exist, another

okei! wrote:
for the rich and famous, they could get what they want “easily” but are they truly happy with that.

something worth it takes time and effort. that you want it so bad that even the universe will conspire to help you get it. that God will allow it to happen. that indeed nothing is impossible.

With these immortal words, I leave you:

Money can’t buy me happiness
But I’m happiest when I can buy what I want, anytime that I want
Get high when I want

The mind hunts for an explanation - its curiosity that drives it.

I’m starting to wonder if maybe there IS a scientific explanation for “wanting it all”…

Darqnyss731 wrote:
i see…now do you feel that this curiousity can traced back to a biological substance in the human anatomy?

I also wonder why we try so desperately to make sense of everything?