helping others aint just for personal gain,i help others because i want to,not for any other reason.we all have reasons to help others
such as? I’m help because it makes a difference to other people, and the world will never be perfect and everyone can’t be happy, but I can try to get it as close as I can. It’s late and I’m slightly depressed, and I heard about some reasoning that people can only love themselves recently. I think it was “people feel good about helping others. although it may not be the primary reason to help, it becomes a matter of self satisfaction.”
thats like me,i try to help as much people as i can and i end up doing a pretty good job.makes me feel good for helping the people i can,but there are somethings we can not help other people with.
ur right regulus but it isnt something openly discussed or thought about
some people have overwhelming problems and a way to cope is to help others. it may seem genuine but in reality they help because it takes their minds of their worries so it is like a drug. it may seem selfish but in the end help goes around this way and like a circle continues forever.
i help because i like answering questions and finding solutions to problems so for me it is like a puzzle to try and solve. again i suppose i don’t help because i really want to but for entertainment or to pass time.
ok,well that does seem to help alot of people aswell.
thats good then
I guess I just wish the world was a bit warmer. people are so ready to flinch and run and defend, but hardly anyone can open up and completely accept a complete stranger into their hearts immediately if there is even a small possibility of a threat. I’m not saying “be best friends with that guy over there”, but I am saying that so many people today lack a deep emotional connection to other random people, regardless of ideals and personality. I find it sad.
yes thats true but atlast there are people like that everywhere around the globe.
help is spreading around the world easily now
I help cause I fought my battles and won. Now I fight for others. I hate depression, cutting, panic attacks, and broken hearts. If I can save someone a little pain and speed up their healing process then that makes me happy, that my shiit wasnt a waste of time.
jjlove wrote:
People originally come here because they need some sort of help of their own. They stay because they discover that it is in helping others that they also help themselves.
agree
jjlove wrote:
People originally come here because they need some sort of help of their own. They stay because they discover that it is in helping others that they also help themselves.
that’s so sad. it really is a selfish matter if that’s true. but I really can’t think of another reason that involves self satisfaction in some way.
oh, and I didn’t men just for this site…
I dont think u could call it selfish, if you answer a post, giving your time and sharing experiences. I came on here with a problem. That was the only problem I have ever posted. I just come to help now. I have empathy for others. And in my heart know that others do too. I is lovely to be in a place… even if it is cyber… that has such lovely people on it.
jjlove wrote:
I don’t understand what you find so sad about people helping themselves. Ultimately, we are the only ones who can fix our own problems, and it is a comfort to know that in doing so, we are not alone. To me, the sharing is a beautiful thing.
it’s not in the fact that we help ourselves, it’s in the fact that all things we seem to do for others, according to this, is essentially just a means of self satisfaction. I want something that I can do completely selflessly for others. I want to know that I do it because it’s right to do for everyone, and that’s impossible because I will always feel some kind of gratification from doing something from others, simply because I like doing it.
in essence, my real question is, can I do anything at all for anybody else without receiving any kind of gratification? I guess I just don’t trust myself to be a good person at times…
its funny im new to this site and i “screamed” HELPPPPPPPP in google and this is what i found help.com that is and it is pretty fascinating
I love helping..
so far..
saved a puppies life.
stopped a girl from cutting
talked numerous people outta suicide
helped with far too many gf bf problems..
and met wonderful; people.
Great site.. wish it was faster and better to work with tho.
ameliaearthlin wrote:
Great site.. wish it was faster and better to work with tho.
that would be a little too much to ask for though, huh? haha
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I help because I believe Galatians 6: “And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not. As we have therefore opportunity, let us do well unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith.” I wish to get in touch with people support what I do . i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>
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Please help me. i have just recently gotten laid off of my job. i have tried hard all of life. raised three children on mine own. it like i take ten steps forward and five backwards. i have always helped anybody in any way i could. the problem i face now is naturally my car brakes now. i need brakes tires and a radiator. i live in a fifth wheel in a rv park and i am very happy. i only owe four grand and it is paid for. my dream is to have a dollar store. but i cannot get the help i need. i have lived in this same town since 1971. please please somebody help me.
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