What if you can’t get over someone? - Help.com

What if you can’t get over someone?

I liked a person intensely, told her my feelings, and she responded negatively. We are still good friends though and I still like her but try not to show it. What do I do about this? I miss her so much right now because we are separated for the next 3 months (college). I am having a really hard time dealing with this.

Thoughts?

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giggle399 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (2 minutes after post)

hmm, I know whatyou mean. You could try to look for another girl to turn your interests to. you can try thinking of that it may not be meant. how did she respond negatively? like was she mean or just not the answer you wanted to hear?

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An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (22 hours, 25 minutes after post)

You sound like you are in the same situation I am in. We both need to find something or someone to keep our mind off them.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

I’m going through the exact same thing only its been 3 months now and although my friends told me I would get over it … i’m not. It hurts. I’m trying to tell myself that it was just not meant to be but its not working.

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