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how do you get a girl to like you when you dont get to see her and talk to her too much?

We get to see each other a little and will be seeing more of each other in the coming weeks, but still i wanna talk to her more but i get too nervous. I do like her but i’m pretty sure she doesnt like me as anymore then just a friend. We went to prom together and had an amazing time I just want to have more fun times like that.

Any helpful advice on how to approach her or wat to say would be great

p.s. sorry about the grammar people

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sarasch9 offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

umm mabey u could talk to her by asking how she liked the prom or something.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

yeh i’ve done that, were in highschool so mainly the only time i see her is between classes

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finchams1 offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

As a guy with relationship issues like yours, I recommend going with a group dynamic approach. Get some friends together and invite her to come along as well (co-ed group would be really good). That way you get to spend time with her without making it awkward. As for what to say, just find some common interests. I read your profile, so you could ask about colleges or about movies or whatever. Don’t play silly games, just be open, honest, and yourself. Remember she has to like you for you, not because you pretend to be someone else. Don’t worry about it and just have fun. :)

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sarasch9 offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

just start by saying hi to her in the hallways. and ask her to hang out. trust me most of the time a girl wouldnt go to the prom with a guy she isnt interested in.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

finchams1 wrote:
As a guy with relationship issues like yours, I recommend going with a group dynamic approach. Get some friends together and invite her to come along as well (co-ed group would be really good). That way you get to spend time with her without making it awkward. As for what to say, just find some common interests. I read your profile, so you could ask about colleges or about movies or whatever. Don’t play silly games, just be open, honest, and yourself. Remember she has to like you for you, not because you pretend to be someone else. Don’t worry about it and just have fun. :)

relationship issues? i suppose you read some of my other posts haha. well thanks alot for the advice that actually sounds like a really good idea, hopefully her parents will let her go out they are very strict. thanks

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finchams1 offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

I got your back dude. No problem. :)

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

haha thanks man

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

lol i see i have made some sort of impact in your head that you and her could be more than just friends if you wanted to.

finchams1 wrote:
As a guy with relationship issues like yours, I recommend going with a group dynamic approach. Get some friends together and invite her to come along as well (co-ed group would be really good). That way you get to spend time with her without making it awkward. As for what to say, just find some common interests. I read your profile, so you could ask about colleges or about movies or whatever. Don’t play silly games, just be open, honest, and yourself. Remember she has to like you for you, not because you pretend to be someone else. Don’t worry about it and just have fun. :)

i agree with finchams. (btw nice to meet u again finchams. lol) if you want, me and sara can hang out with you two. lol and trust me, i’m sure she likes you.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

lol how do u always manage to get on when i post about cam?

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

jacobingram wrote:
lol how do u always manage to get on when i post about cam?

lol i was just thinking the same thing. lmfao i dont know how i do it. maybe its a sign that you should listen to me. or maybe its just complete luck. who knows. i just got tired of Left 4 Dead and i thought “hmmm maybe something good will be on Help.com” so here i am. lol

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

lol so monday you gonna bring the 360 to school?

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

yeah. im gonna try to. lets see, i need power cable, a/v cable, audio splicer, 2 remotes, and system with games. right? lol

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

lol yeh and i an bring a controller if u need or any games

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finchams1 offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

Video games in school? I like it. lol

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

i should be good on controllers but bring whatever games you want.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

haha yeh we get like half the day free so we thought hmm that projetor would be sweet to hook up to one of our 360s

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

finchams1 wrote:
Video games in school? I like it. lol

lol. me and jacob don’t have any classes until 12:10 so we sit in the library. got nothing better to do since the school had to go and block Help.com. but its alright for me to read a news article about a 7 year old girl finding a used condom in her happy meal. -.-

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finchams1 offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

Good plan. I remember playing guitar hero in history at the end of senior year. It was pretty awesome.

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

haha. we played halo 2 last year. it was ok.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

haha yeh but we got in trouble for it

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finchams1 offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

DUM DUM DUM! :)

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

jacobingram wrote:
haha yeh but we got in trouble for it

ehh but it wasnt that much trouble lol. it was just the ” hey go find somewhere else to do that” speech. lol

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

haha yeh but we got that speech like 10 times

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

jacobingram wrote:
haha yeh but we got that speech like 10 times

haha yeah. but hey, we’ll be in the library. no one ever goes in there. lol

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finchams1 offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

Lol, that is a problem, isn’t it? Books are great!

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

finchams1 wrote:
Lol, that is a problem, isn’t it? Books are great!

it’s rather saddening, yes, but the books at our school suck cause they are about 500 years old and if they arent then theyre about hunting. :(

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

haha yeh i hate our school

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finchams1 offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

Look for clive cussler and Jack Du Brul and Dan Brown. Great authors all.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

Hey if you have xbox live email me. i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

Ur a *****!

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

deadlyfatepinoy1 wrote:
UR A *****! WHO THE **** NEEDS TO ASK THE INTERNET

haha wat a ***, its help.com not insult.com

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

jacobingram wrote:

deadlyfatepinoy1 wrote:
UR A *****! WHO THE **** NEEDS TO ASK THE INTERNET

haha wat a ***, its help.com not insult.com

haha i completely missed him coming in here.

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