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My friend’s dad died.

There’s this girl at school… call her (thinks of similar name) Cam.. She about the only person I’ve met in highschool so far that has been mean to me at all… BUT I found out today that her dad died suddenly on friday and she wasn’t at school today.. I haven’t talked to her in a while even though she sits in front of me in math but i texted her a few minutes ago to see if she was okay, which she said she was.. I’m hoping the good people here will say a prayer, send a thought, meditate upon, whatever you feel comfortable with, for her and her family.. I don’t know what made him pass away and didn’t want to go into it too much with her having it been so soon but he can’t have been much over 40, if he was even that old.. This girl, Cam, is always smiling, which sometimes annoys me, but shes all in all a pretty good person and can’t have deserved this… Thanks.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
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I will send my prayers and my condolences. I am sorry.

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krnleija offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
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damm thats sad i’ll surely pray 4 her n her family!!

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UniqueLikeEveryone offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
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I’m sending good thoughts and sympathy.

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bluflames83 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
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littlenick wrote:
I will send my prayers and my condolences. I am sorry.

krnleija wrote:
damm thats sad i’ll surely pray 4 her n her family!!

UniqueLikeEveryone wrote:
I’m sending good thoughts and sympathy.

Thanks : )

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
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I’m really sorry for your friends loss. I send lots of sympathy and condolences.

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Max offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 205 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (12 hours, 22 minutes after post)

That’s very sad yes:( I pray that she and her family are okay. Although she’s smiling, inside she needs a shoulder. Good for you being there:)

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Misfit offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (15 hours, 59 minutes after post)

i know how she feels. i lost my ma in ‘01. I send out a hug to the girl! BE STRONG CAM!!

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bluflames83 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

AABN wrote:
I’m really sorry for your friends loss. I send lots of sympathy and condolences.

Thanks a lot : )

Max wrote:
That’s very sad yes:( I pray that she and her family are okay. Although she’s smiling, inside she needs a shoulder. Good for you being there:)

Thanks for coming Max : ).. I dont know, I’m gonna be there a little bit, but I can’t imagine she really wants me there.. the wake is tomorrow, I’m going to go if I can find a ride..

Misfit wrote:
i know how she feels. i lost my ma in ‘01. I send out a hug to the girl! BE STRONG CAM!!

ouch, thats rough Lovely, : ( it’s amazing that you got through that.. Thanks a lot for coming : )

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Misfit offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
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lol no prob blu any time

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bluflames83 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week after post)

Silverwings wrote:
It is always nice to think of others, esp. during a time of crisis, which this sounds to be, as noone is ever prepared for death, esp. at a young age, most times, we feel we are invincible, and will live forever, however, sometimes, that just isn’t so. I applaud your efforts to help your friend, and I am sure that she appreciates any effort on her part, even if she might be unaware of it, the warm wishes and prayers going her way, have to be of help.

Some people just have a built in smile, and sunny disposition, no matter what life happens to throw their way, and this sounds like your friend, which is a blessing, even if it may be hard to understand.

Thanks for offering your thoughts of concern, on behalf of your friend.

God bless… you both.

Thanks for coming : )

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I wish you well all you can do and smile when you can for this girl because so long as she knows kindness is there for her she’ll be ok its very hard to fin a smile at such a tough time

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bluflames83 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 4 weeks ago (4 weeks, 1 day after post)

tanyanolan1 wrote:
I wish you well all you can do and smile when you can for this girl because so long as she knows kindness is there for her she’ll be ok its very hard to fin a smile at such a tough time

thanks : )

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