Love help: why don’t guys just tell you that they only wanna have a sexual relationship? - Help.com

Because if they tell you straight up, you won’t want to have one! Girls like all the crap that comes with guys trying to get into your pants and when they finally do and they leave you afterward you feel “hurt.” Once a guy got what he wanted, he will stay if he likes it. If he does not like it, he will move on to another girl until he finds the one he “loves.” Or so he will try to make himself believe. That’s is why “relationships” are nothing but BS. And they people who love to play those little games are full of crap themselves!

There! I said it. Now let me have it!

Because maybe they were hoping for something more but it just didn’t work out for them for whatever reason. Just because something didn’t work out doesn’t mean anybody did anything bad to you on purpose.

I would never use someone or fool them to believe what is not true.

They basicly dont give a ****. They have no conciseness and dont care if they hurt anyone as long as they gain something.

I think that basically if a guy said to a girl that he only wanted sex, she would feel pretty cheap if she went along with it, even if it suited her. So its unlikely that anyone is going to be as honest as you suggest, even though I agree that feelings can be very hurt when you later discover that your guy isn’t serious. I guess you have to ask yourself, would you rather be disrespected or disappointed??!