social help: how do you start loving everything when u feel u lost it all - Help.com

~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Sorry to hear that.
Must beel like a weight on your shoulders.
Is there anything you can pin it on?
Did something happen to make you feel sad for a specific reason?

Have you thought maybe you have medical depression?
If you have felt this way for 6 months then the chances are it is not just a phase that will go easily, do you have anyone around you that would listen to how you feel, support you?

i don’t really know it just happened and lost touch with most of my friends and all am living with now is the daily routine which is killing me even more i run away from all my friends not wanting to show them my demoloshed side where i don’t feel myself at all and feel really low … i was this really cheerful lively person optimist and i really want to work it out to be like i used to be

Anonymous wrote:
The first thing you should do is to try and re-gain your friends, or even make new ones. I always find that friends help if I’m not feeling too good. (This part is optional –>)At some point, try and find someone you know you can trust, and just tell them how you are feeling. If they are indeed a good friend, then they will feel sorry for you. and comfort you as much as they can. Also, try and get some sort of a hobby, something where you can just go and get away from it all if needs be.

i have a lot of hobbies and its just that i feel dead inside and i would do anything to be myself again .. i feel like i am shut and want to break free from this negative feeling but the daily routine always make time pass away not making me concentrate on myself … i know it sounds pathetic and never thought i’d be in this position but its happened and i need an effecient solution

Jalex wrote:

i feel like i am shut and want to break free from this negative feeling but the daily routine always make time pass away not making me concentrate on myself … i know it sounds pathetic and never thought i’d be in this position but its happened and i need an effecient solution

Point 1. Try and do something out of the ordinary. Organise something that you wouldn’t usually think you would do. Something fun.

And point 2. Of course it’s not pathetic. Almost everyone goes through this kind of thing at some point in their lives.

nice advice .. its just that whenever i plan on going out with anyone i tend to avoid human contact without even noticing it .. with almost everyone i know .. that is whats freaking me out its really scaring me ..
and i really want to be myself again ( outgoing, fearless, perky and happy) .. the thing is i can’t say this to anyone since i myself don’t know why it turned out this way .. everyone would think im just spoiled .. or not knowing what i want ..