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There is no fault in your feelings. You do need to have you husband sit down and talk to you about his feelings though. It not that he doesn’t love you, I’m sure. He’s a Marine, so showing emotion has been trained out of him to an extent. My Step Dad was a Marine. He is very likely scared to death of what your illness is doing to you, and probably feels helpless, but he doesn’t want to face it, so he backs off. Don’t give up, keep fighting you aren’t truly alone.

for about the kids for now.think about you. what you wold like to be doing in 7 years. stop thinking about him, or you geting a job, if you wold like to work then go to work. take some of your money and put it back for just ypou. if you dont go back to school.now about him.if he is not taring to get you in bed he may be gay or bi, so it better that you do not have kids with him go to school, do you have a car? get a dog, for get about kids for now hun you are just 20, have some fun,