depression help: When you have done all that you can do to get a job and your

guster32

When you have done all that you can do to get a job

and your family still thinks you are a slacker, what would you guys tell your three very successful brothers to do? I am becoming depressed because they just do not understand and never will. I have run out of explanations, and I am very tired. I come here because this site gives me hope and comfort. Now, I need something to tell them. I am fresh out of explanations for not having a job at my age, which I wil not repeat again. This site has helped in the past!

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5 months, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

I have much more sucessful brothers too. Don’t let the family walk all over you is my advice.

blackie36 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

have you tried monster.com?

guster32 8 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 4 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Thanks, and no, I thought they charged a fee and I am broke-maybe I’ll look into it-thanks

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 4 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

There are tons of people right now who can’t find work, I’m one of them. I understand what you mean- everyone thinks you’re a slacker if you can’t get one! i think the best thing to do would be to straight tell them, “Look, nothing i say will make you think any better of me, and i’m not gonna explain myself you you three anymore.”

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

Honestly let go… ‘you keep on going, ‘but do it for your self, because you need to became undependable so keep looking and before they ever ask let them know you are going to look for a job, remember talk a head of them and they will live you alone. but dont forgot they one the best for you and they want to make sure that you will be able to deal with responsabilitys….because they wond last for ever.

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guster32 8 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

Hey guys, I was so down when I posted, and all of it was true. I asked everyone I knew to think good thoughts and to say a little prayer, and now I have a great and challenging job I am off to for the next three months. So, I thank all that had good thoughts and prayed. The prayers have been answered. This job is going to be one of the hardest I have ever done. It’s just that way now in my profession, but it is work, with a chance for more, so I am truly blessed. And it’s like I told a friend today, I really do not care what any of these people, including my so-called family, think about me. All I care about is that God knows what is in my heart, period. Yes, me or my family wlll be gone soon, life is a nanosecond, at best, but I tried with them. I tried calling and just talking and keeping in touch. When our parents died, I begged my oldest brother to help keep us together. He agreed, and he and my other two brothers talk at least weekly. So, I am never, ever good enough for them, no matter what I do. I move on and make my life, and enjoy what’s left of it!

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