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I’m in love with someone and we can’t be together for really complicated reasons that i don’t want to go into.
I’m only 16 and I feel really miserable and I’ve been suffering from mild OCD, Panic Disorder, and Insomnia. I have constant thoughts about killing myself because I really see no point. What is the point of life if you can’t be with the person you love?
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I’m not here to be a ***** sweetie but to be honest, you’re 16, and killing yourself over 16 year old love is like giving up on school because you couldn’t do algebra in preschool. Just take a deep breath and keep living, do things that make you happy, and I’m sure someone will come along and love ya.
Well tough you were an *******. I guess you’ve never really known love. That sux. but thanks anyway.
Uhm she’s right. Vixen that is. That’s not a good reason at all. You’ll find new love. Better love, but saying something like that says that maybe you really just need to learn that you don’t need a guys love, just the love of people around you. The boys will follow, but not if they think you’re overly depressing.
Hey amn i know how you feel, not about killing myself but about not being able to be wih the person you love.
in my case shese muslim and i am not, so she is forbidden.
But we do love each other and can’t start a relationship.
But not being able to be with someone you love at your age, is maybe at that point verry hard for you. But believe me kid, Killing yourself doesn’t solve the problem.
I think you should better try everything to get together. And maybe thats something that will keep your mind of some of your problems.
goodluck and hang on!
I’m 17 and I know I’m in love with this lad and he told me he likes me too. But we can’t be together because of complicated reasons also. I would actually do anything for him, and it sometimes hurts to talk to him, knowing I can’t kiss him or start a relationship with him or anything. But there’s not much I can do so I have to move on. Don’t be silly saying your going to kill yourself and stuff because others will see that as attention seeking, and I doubt that’s what your after at all. Just keep talking to him and being friendly with him, the way you would with a friend. And you will eventually move on, like I will someday too :)
I know this isn’t exactly much help but I just thought I’d post a little comment.
your still 16 and life still has more to bring u hun, but thinking about giving up your life and thinking theres no point of living is no way to solve any of your problems, trust me later on in life you’ll maybe realize that this happened for a reason so that you can see the sour and sweets in life, to teach u a lesson than BAM u might find the love of your life, i believe you can love again, it’s what our mind tells us that we cant live without that person and our heart listens to it, but i know how it feels to be with someone you KNOW that it’ll never happen (meaning things wont go further), cause im a muslim girl and in islam it’s allowed for a guy to get married to four wives (without divorcing), though i’m a muslim but raised up in the states i WOULD NEVER share my hubby with someone else!! later on through out our relationship he admitted that he was married with 2 kids that almost gave me a stroke cause it would have never ever crossed my mind but of course i left him, during those days it was like a nightmare n living in hell! but than i realize it’s not worth going through the pain cause life is precious and i got a family that needs me and friends i still wanna be with, this is what’s pushing me to live life to it’s fullest… i dont know if this might help but just letting u know that your not alone and we all go through pain no matter how bad the situation is u got to move on and it might change you and make you stronger..
but good luck :)
I’m so sorry I know exactly wat ur going thru and it sucks. I can’t be with a guy that I’m inlove with because he’s 19 and I’m 16 and he’s leaving for the marines soon but I’m still going to do everything I can for us to at least have some time together before I’m going to b heartbroken when he leaves
Hi, I’m 17 and have the same problem with my best friend. I love him, and he love’s me too, but not in the same way I love him. He will be joining the Marines when we get out of college and the way he’s put it, is that he doesn’t want to have to worry about me back home while he’s off fighting, he’s not afraid to die for his country but he fears what it would do to me if he were to die and we were together. When he first told me this the overwhelming feeling of regection took me like a storm, I was suicidal for a period of time until I had come to realize that he wasn’t the only person in my life I would hurt by leaving, I am still young and am going through some hard times again, but even though a lot of the time some friends and family don’t show the love and support they should doesn’t mean that they’re still always there for you.
i totally know that feeling.. i think i have the exact same problem..
he loves me madly.. and i do too.. we’re willing to do anything for eachother..
but sometimes.. everything isn’t enough.. !
but believe me.. life isn’t just love… sure love makes it beautiful and brings life to life .. but if you kill your self and close all doors by being miserable.. it wont solve it at all.. it will make it even more worse.. be patient.. and who knows what tomorrow brings. right ? just hang on.. and have faith .
Everyones right, pulling off a suicide is just not worth it. You werent born in to this life to simply throw it all away now. Do things to keep your mind off this love bug. Most of all, talking to someone about problems like these relieves some of the stress that your taking in, get it off your chest! I have a similar situation too and don’t know what’s going to happen next but I continue my life because life has it’s high peaks where I will enjoy em but often times I will fallinto a pit full of problems where I just stick the middle finger to the sky and pull through no matter what.. Be strong, easier to be said then done but remember that nothing is impossible as long as your alive. Your not a caged bird so live freely, dont be restricted by what seems to be ‘impossible love’.
Hey, I too know how you feel exactly. But giving up your life isn’t the solution. It’s really hurts when your love has to be like this. For me it’s something similar too. I love my best friend so much! He has said that he likes me so much too. I thought he loves me sometimes, I don’t know. But after he found out that I love him, He said that we can’t be together… He won’t tell me the reason. But I guess it’s our religion difference. I would do anything and everything for him. From all my flesh from every drop of my blood… from everything I am… from everything I’ve become… to everything I will be… I love him sooo deeply!!! But I got no hope left. This is my first and last love. I already decided to stay alone my whole life, that’s not a problem for me. But I will never going to kill myself!
Your life is so valuable and it’s a gift given to you. Life is sooo hard sometimes, but you have to face it! And go on. Hang on to it, you are still too young. There are so many things coming ahead of you life. Face them… Learn by the experiences of your life and be a stronger person… You are not the only one who has faced something like this. There are so many other people too.. So remember that you are not alone… I wish you all a peaceful happy life!
Hi there , I don’t even know why am I writing to you all i know is , i love man and i cannot be with him for religious reasons , pls help someone , i don’t know , i just know that i love him bcoz everything just feels so right btween us. wheneva i want to call him some how he calls me, when we speak we same say the same things at the same time , our mind and hearts just think and feel the same but it’s wrong as we cannot be together. It is forbidden. He is the son of my Bishop in church and is younger then me but we love each other so much , ive realised that this relationship has done nothing but problems for us but everytime i want to end things , i end up saying “I LOVE YOU” , maybe im losing it. It has to stop but my question is how do you let go of something you love and want so dearly?
theres a lot more to life than just that person. what about friends? family?
i’m with a guy i love, and i would LOVE to spend the rest of my life with him as would he. but we know that its not possible due to family and religious/cultural reasons. when the time comes what is meant to happen will, but i know that despite how much i love him i still have friends and family that i also love with all my heart. so to neglect them and simply focus on my love for him is not fair, nor is it right.
and about committing suicide? please, don’t take any drastic actions like that. it’s really not worth it.
i assure you, at some point in your life you will look back and thank yourself for not having gone so far. everything in life is unexpected, we don’t know whats around the corner so focus on the good things in life and look forward to the possibilities.
I’m 15 and know what you mean, about 4 months ago on 12/6/10 my girlfriend killed herself because…let’s just say I said things I shouldnt have. not only that but now it’s like everytime I try to move on, I get these panic attacks where I feel like I’m going to die. I wish I was dead. shes the only person I’ve ever loved and I can’t be with her and she’s dead and it’s all my fault. I finally found someone who I like and for once, I don’t get panic attacks, but for certain reasons I can’t be with her, the only reason I haven’t killed myself is because there are people who are actually stupid enough to give a **** about me, so I know where your coming from.
i say **** reason why you cant be with some one i say be with them i say fight the whole world to be with them i love marcie redrick and we are not supposed to be together but i know one thing i would tear a hole in this god forsakin earth to get to her protect her take a bullet for her and i would never in my life let what another person thought or how the world looked at me keep me from being with my soul mate i would go to hell and back i would go to heaven and back i would never stop ever to get back to my baby b/c with out her what does anything else amount to with out my soul mate nothing i have will have would ever matter we got till december untill we get to be together everyday hurts but no amount of time will change how we feel about one another she waited 3 years for me to get back from iraq then she went into the service my unit was called back to the states and hers deployed love is tough but not as tough as the ones who do the loving
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