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Ask her to stop. My mother talked very bad about my father so I asked her to stop and she has done it less.
tell her that you don’t like her to talk badly about your mom, go like: “could you please stop talking badly about my mom, it makes me feel (your feelings here) and i would appreciate it if you don’t” tell your mom about his if she continues or your dad even.
You might also want to mention that she insults you everytime she does that because half of the ingredients that made you are from your mom.
PS THat is wrong of her by the way, and I’m sorry that she does that, I hope she stops when you bring it to her attention.
maybe deep down shes actually jelous.
And if she doesn’t stop tell her she has no place to talk bad about your mother. And if she still don’t stop when she says something rude say look whos talking. hehe. that part was kinda a joke. Maybe if you talk to her and tell her how it makes you feel then she will stop.
Step mom needs to grow up, her jealousy should not be seen or heard by her step children. -just my opinion
ignore her. if you care about what she says and gets angry, you lose. because she gets the idea that she can control/affect your mood
tell her what she has to say about your mom is very unneeded for you to hear…and that you trully dont want to hear it…ask her why she says what she does and if she has something to back up her lil statments that prolly arnt tru…tell her that you mom dosent bad mouth her (if she dont that is)…and that it really needs to stop…or go strait to the source and talk to your dad and tell him his girl needs to stop because it makes you uncomfortable…or the old saying might work
“IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY THEN DONT SAY NOTHING AT ALL”
aw that is really to bad my step mom asked my dad to send me to a boarding school so here i am look next time she does that either tell her how mean that is and if she still does it a good slap acroos the face might help! if you get in to trouble tell him whaT SHE DID TO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My stepmom always talks bad about my mom. I am just going to tell her how i feel, and maybe she will stop I hope!!!=(
I have a stepmom that married my dad, and bade talks my mom and stepdad. She makes disicions that my mom should be making, she introduces me as her son, and when I’m with my mom she calls my mom over 9 times in 3 days or so and she bade mouth my mom. She is lazy and makes me do her chores like get her purse many times and her drink that she let on the other end of the house. She woke me. Up at 12 am for me to go get her a drink. My dad left the state to go mourn the untimely death of my grandmother, where my stepmother went on a tangent screaming and yelling. She chased my through the house holding cat food telling me the cats hade to be fed before 9 and it was 8 50. She stalks my grandma and lys to my face and my mothers. She DRIVES ME CRAZY! She tells my mom that we fight but at nite I want to come and hug wnd kiss her, which is bull. I hate her guts and I believe she’s in denial. I hope she dosnt have some sort of sick pleasure with me. HELP
well my stepmom hates me she calls me a rag doll and she tells my dad lies if she calls me stuff she lies like o i was only jokeingi did not mean too i hate her o and she treats her kid she is 13 like the Queen of shiba… she gets wat ever she wants i hate it and she called the cops on my mom for nothing I HATE HER….
Cuss that ***** the **** out. I just found out from my little sis that mySM did the same thing. Needless to say, that **** don’t fly with me. Ima let her *** have it in a minute(as soon as I get done writing this in fact). Sorry for all the profanity it just really eats me up to see you write this. It just shows how insensitive people really are. I reaaaaaaaally feel for you too bcuz my SM has children of her own and you would think she’d be a little understanding about a situation suck as that. Then again look who were tlking about. Anywho, I beg you please don’t let this thing she did just slide on by. Confront her! People just dnt understand how this affects teens both emotionally and psychologically. well, I’m going to go deal with this mofo rite now, but please. Take what I said into consideration.
P.S. U may not be able to. They may not post my message due to all the profanity. Good luck too you though. :D
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