school help: hey i need flirting tips!

lovehimlots

hey i need flirting tips!

!! but without me having to feel weird. also im in 7th grade so… oh and i never talk to him. help me!!!

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anonomyous3678976543 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

hun, you are way too young to be worrying about guys. Give it a couple of years and just foccus on school, friends, and developing your own intrests. (I know this is so not what you wanted to hear, but I think it’s true)

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southern_comfort 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

I can’t believe someone already put this on the web…. http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt-in-Seven…

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usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

southern_comfort wrote:
I can’t believe someone already put this on the web…. http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt-in-Seven…

Ha ha ha ha I love wiki how-tos.

“and never smoke or do drugs. Guys like girls that are smart and have a clean record.” I guess im out then

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...Angel... 7 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

seriously sweet, i agree you are too young to have a boyfriend but if you are really seriously ask him for his number than get back to me n ill tell you the next step

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lovehimlots 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (21 hours, 38 minutes after post)

i am not to young!!! tell me that when my cousin is in 4th grade and has a bf. and i already have his number. he just doesnt know. my friend gave it to me.

usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (21 hours, 52 minutes after post)

lovehimlots wrote:
i am not to young!!! tell me that when my cousin is in 4th grade and has a bf. and i already have his number. he just doesnt know. my friend gave it to me.

Well that doesn’t count.

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lovehimlots 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 13 minutes after post)

what doesnt count

usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 14 minutes after post)

That your friend gave you his number.

To him, you don’t have it. And if you were to call him that would be kind of stalkerish.

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lovehimlots 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 17 minutes after post)

no… and plus, i like him to much to call him anyway. i dont even talk to him i like him that much

usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Oh my dear… I can’t help you if you dont make the effort. Sorry.

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lovehimlots 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 20 minutes after post)

i would make the effort if you gave me advice on how to!!!

usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 23 minutes after post)

TALK TO HIM!!!

Say hello. Make friends. Being shy and passive about this isn’t going to get you anywhere and for him, well you’ll just seem boring.

Don’t worry about flirting until he actually knows who you are and says hi to you.

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lovehimlots 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 24 minutes after post)

wait are u a girl or a guy?

usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 26 minutes after post)

a girl

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lovehimlots 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 29 minutes after post)

oh ok, but he does no who i am, we had every class together last year, but none this year. i see him all the time though. i just am the type of person that waits for him to “make the moves”

usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Yeah we all start out that way…

But guys are dumb. They dont get it. I’m 21, and they still dont get. They dont get hints.

Talking to him is not considered “making a move” just so you know.

It’s about give and take hun.

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lovehimlots 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 38 minutes after post)

i knew that but, i would probably look stupid or weird or something. i asked him out, well my friend did for me, but he said no, and i still like him. if i knew he liked me, (even though i think he does, hes just REALLY shy around me), then i would talk to him. he knows i like him though.

usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 45 minutes after post)

Dont send your friends to do things your too scared to do.

I dont know what to say - I am giving you advice but your too scared to talk to him, so how could you possibly flirt with him?

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lovehimlots 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 46 minutes after post)

ok then, how could i get up the nerve to talk to him?

usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 52 minutes after post)

This is how I do it…now its just become second nature.

Don’t think anything about it. Just walk up to him and talk to him like you have already had a couple conversations.

“Hey, how are you?!” What does he like? What do you have in common?

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tinag0 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (23 hours, 49 minutes after post)

You just have to walk up to him and start a conversation. He’s probably just as nervous as you. Once you get past that first initial “scary nervous” Hello, talking to him will get a little easier. Those “scary nervous” jitters will turn to “exciting nervous” jitters once you do. You’ll see. You just have to take that leap and initiate the conversation. Ask him about anything… school, sports, joint friends…. whatever. You’ll be so relieved once you do.

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cassidyclau #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (2 weeks after post)

I need a boy to and there is one that sits right next to me in class. I all ready know that he likes me because we just had a school concert lastnight and he was staring directly at me during my dance and he wasent even singing with the rest of the classes like he was supposed to. And I like him as well but almost every one in our grade thinks he’s a dork I dont now what to do what if every one knows I like him and already a few people know he likes me.

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cassidyclau #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (2 weeks after post)

HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :( !

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kmunn #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

Smile a lot when you talk to him! Even if it’s like, “Hey, what pages were we supposed to read for History?” Just think about how giddy he makes you feel and make that into a big, friendly, pretty smile.

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bopearock #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (3 months after post)

i’ve been in that position soo many times!
im an 8th grader. this is true- do not have your friends do stuff for you, that shows him your the scared shy type. boys dont like that.
i think you should call him but it would be waay better if you had texting and just texted him. hey its whatever your name is. if he doesnt text back- he’s not into you sorry. and i would just get over him… if you dont have texting, dont call him that would be embarassing. just talk to him at school, make friends with him.
hope this helps :)
goodluck.

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...Angel... 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (3 months after post)

well just ask him out then

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