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My Girlfriend likes it when I treat her Like little girl is this normal?

Now personally i think its cute and all but really i was just wondering if it was normal and if you think I should stop. I mean When she wants to do something she’ll always ask me and ask me like “honey I was a good girl Can I go watch TV?” and if she has a stomach ace or something shell come to me and say “honey my tummy hurts can you give me tummy rub?” And she likes it when I call her “little one” or “little girl and stuff” and she likes it when I read her bedtime stories and when I tuck her into bed and stuff. And she always call me “sir” alot. Again personally I think its cute but I was wondering if it was abnormal and if I should stop?

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Hello users,Im Sandy offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
CA | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

lol whats normal anyways?
whatever pleases the girl then go for it.

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love_m offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

be honest with herr and ..tell her how u feel.about
tell her wuts in ur heart..

maybe she thinks its sexxy when u treat her like a baby or sumething
-we all ladies wanna act like babies sumethings but not all the timess thou..

i hope i helped
=)

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Hellacious Haro offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

I think it’s cute :D
Especially about the tummy…
Don’t worry about it

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Hello users,Im Sandy offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
CA | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

agree with zip-in-time. you definitly should bring her back into reality once and a while,

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

awww thats cute. You should tell her little girl come to bed…I’ve got something to show you. : )

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

Constant acting like that–maybe a problem
Once in a while comments and stuff–sounds cute

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Hello users,Im Sandy offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
CA | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

sound slike a fetish she just has.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month after post)

**** you all.

Regards,

Bob ******

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angel_butterfly04 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

well i talk like a little girl to my boy friend all the time. And yah it is cute, because he likes it when i do it. But i do agree that she doesn’t have to do it all the time. Sometimes i am serious with my boy friend, and all the other times i act little. We have been going great so far

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

I totally agree with zip-in-time and any sane person would agree with us! This is a MAJOR sign of some deeper mental problems. Most likely father figure issues but could also have something to do with other childhood issues. Tell her to seek therapy or go to couples counseling and talk about this just so you can get some professional (which my opinion is not) advice. Seriously don’t let this go on much longer it is very unhealthy.

If you have been dating a short time then just break it off and suggest she seek counseling. You don’t owe her much more than that.

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cussenr offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

Ok, I must be sick in the head or something plz commit me I want the white padded room. I been confronting my girlfriend (shes 23) about this behavior for more than more than 6 months now ( we’ve been dating for a year). It has to stop, there is nothing cute about a grown adult acting like a 4 year old. Its not sexy, cute or attractive not to mention not healthy in a relationship. Think about it ladies, do you want your men interested in a 4 year old, last time I checked we had laws about being a pedophile. Then why act like one. Its no wonder why there are soo many pedophiles out there today, our women are encouraging it. Mine just told me that I’m the crazy person because I can’t stand it (hate it is more like it) and everyone she knows does it. Really, if this is the case then I’m the crazy person for not wanting to date a 4 year old like everyone else, that is just sick Sick SICK!!! WTF commit me then already.

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