Life is just so great!
Kind of a rant, but anyways, almost three months ago my ex-girlfriend of two years cheated on me and crushed me. It was easily the must pain I’d ever been in emotionally. She would do whatever she knew would make me jealous or anger me, it felt like life was just falling down around me. I made a couple posts on here about how it hurt or asking what I needed to do to win her back. The most common response i recieved was to simply let her go, and honestly at the time I thought these people just didn’t understand the relationship I had been in. Well guys I definately see now what you guys meant, you were definately right and now I’m definately ready to let her go. I thank you all for your help and kind words, it really helped.
And now I’ve met another girl, this girl was there for me when i really needed someone. She’d text me and talk to me all night to help me feel better, and recently I’ve been given the chance to pay her back for her kindness. Her boyfriend did exactly to her what my girlfriend did to me, so I was there for her. We’ve talked a lot this last month and eventually moved our topic off our ex’s and on to the positives in life and earlier tonight we spent time together just talking having a good time. It was only 20 minutes we spent talking but it was easily the best thing to happen to me in the last couple of months. Afterwords when we finally did leave she texts me and tells me how much she wishes she didn’t have to leave. Its so great because now we’re becoming more serious and I believe a relationship with this girl will not only be a long one but probably the best one I’ve ever had the pleasure to be apart of.
Once again I just want to point out how great life can be, everything gets better eventually. Just keep looking for the positive side of life and the good things will come. 3 months ago I was in the worst emotional state possible and now here I am about to embark on a new adventure in my life.
thanks for reading people
~Jacob W. Ingram :)
::UPDATE::
Me and her got to hang out again last night but this time we watched a movie, it started normal just talking but like 10 minutes in she cuddled up to me laying her head on my chest with her arm around me. It felt so right to be able to hold her and enjoy the movie. I’m not a kiss and tell kind of guy so I won’t be writing about the rest of the movie. But I’m sure I will continue to update the writings on this post, because I don’t know something about this girl inspires me to write and share my happiness with everyone. Wish me Luck!
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Life is just so great!
Kind of a rant, but anyways, almost three months ago my ex-girlfriend of two years cheated on me and crushed me. It was easily the must pain I’d ever been in emotionally. She would do whatever she knew would make me jealous or anger me, it felt like life was just falling down around me. I made a couple posts on here about how it hurt or asking what I needed to do to win her back. The most common response i recieved was to simply let her go, and honestly at the time I thought these people just didn’t understand the relationship I had been in. Well guys I definately see now what you guys meant, you were definately right and now I’m definately ready to let her go. I thank you all for your help and kind words, it really helped.
And now I’ve met another girl, this girl was there for me when i really needed someone. She’d text me and talk to me all night to help me feel better, and recently I’ve been given the chance to pay her back for her kindness. Her boyfriend did exactly to her what my girlfriend did to me, so I was there for her. We’ve talked a lot this last monthand eventually moved our topic off our ex’s and on to the positives in life and earlier tonight we spent time together just talking having a good time. It was only 20 minutes we spent talking but it was easily the best thing to happen to me in the last couple of months. Afterwords when we finally did leave she texts me and tells me how much she wishes she didn’t have to leave. Its so great because now we’re becoming more serious and I believe a relationship with this girl will not only be a long one but probably the best one I’ve ever had the pleasure to be apart of.
Once again I just want to point out how great life can be, everything gets better eventually. Just keep looking for the positive side of life and the good things will come. 3 months ago I was in the worst emotional state possible and now her I am about to embark on a new adventure in my life.
thanks for reading people
~Jacob W. Ingram :)
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