Love help: i cheated on my wife while we were dating and as of a fer weeks - Help.com



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i cheated on my wife while we were dating and as of

a fer weeks ago we started a new honesty thing i admitted to the smoking and chewing behind her back and we went on being honest it felt great then yester day she asked me if i had ever been with anyone else and so i said yes and now she wont even talk to me she even said we might get a divorce i don’t know what to do and i don’t wanna loose her

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Just explain to her that it was long ago(if it was) and that love grows over time so it wont happen ever again(as long as your being honest and wont). Good luck.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

Give her time ..and space.

Explain to her what happened and that it was in the past. Just be clear about your feelings, but give her time to think things over. Don’t suffocate her or you will just push her away.

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