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what should i say to her when we meet?
here is the beginning of the story
(didn’t get much replies to it, so i’ll appreciate if you read it first)
http://help.com/post/276369-does-that...
(you would also won’t get a thing out of what i am going to write if you don’t read it first :P)
continuing:
thing is,
that now we haven’t talked for three days,
i am sure she didn’t call because she is still angry about me,
but i don’t look at it that way,
my “falling in love” is over now, and i am **** happy about it.
however, i found out that i don’t love her anymore. she has changed, and changed her attitude towards me either.
so she is not what she used to be for me.
i don’t feel that i want to be very friendly towards her too,
but i still care for her as a person, so i don’t want to hurt her.
i am not going to call her, and i am sure she is going to think it is for a different reason than it is.
i foresee great tension when we meet next week.
i don’t know what i am going to tell her if she calls.
i just don’t.
thats what i need help with, really, asap.
she is going to ask me why i haven’t called…
she is going to ask me if i got offended, and tell me i was not acting right.
if i tell her the truth.. that i was in love with her again, and that it passed, it would sound like a lame excuse and would get her even more angry and me look as a more annoying person than i was when i did feel that way.
if i tell her that i am not offended, and that i am glad she yelled at me although i don’t agree with it and am angry about it, well.. i am not angry about it, but she WAS acting strange.
but it is not so strange because it’s obvious she did this because of her boyfriend’s pressure on her.
its just so **** complicated to explain all the things that passed threw my mind in the past two days,
and tbh i don’t want to explain it.
but i don’t want to argue about things from her point of view, which is a few steps back from things i have already gone by and left behind.
what do i tell her so she won’t get hurt and so my future behavior would be taken in context.
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