Love help: I’m tired of being ditched by every guy I’ve ever been with. - Help.com

hmmm, can I ask how old you are and how long you have been dating for?

I think you are too young to be giving up on feeling, but you are old enough to know how the game works, most guys you meet probably are not going to try that hard, I know tons of guys that don’t give a crap about girls that are my friends and it makes me very upset to see it, you are not the only girl that this happens too at all, don’t become jaded yet, just stop looking, i find that if you look for friends in the people around you that the real relationships develope and then you have the option to take it further, if you can retain a friend with how interesting you are then you are ready for a boyfriend, hope this helps

I’ve been there, exactly there, please trust me, it will come back if you wait, be open, find an avenue of expression, whether it be a dancing or acting class or an art class, or even just a good scream off the roof, i had to put all my feelings into poetry for a year because i couldn’t get them to come out, now i’m back to my choking up in movies being totally in love self, and also the friendship thing really does work, trust me, give it a shot

Just to offer another pespective do you think that maybe they just realize you may not be the one? I mean I have dated plenty of girls because I liked them and wanted to get to know them but then after some time, in many cases not too much time I breakup with them upon realizing they are not for me. For me the point of dating is to get experience with different people until you find what you truely like, not neccessarily date them all for extended periods and waste their time and mines.

the fact that u mentioned u dont over do it suggests u have been accused before of overdoing it, or you sometimes feel that u have am I right?

The world is a huge place, don’t underestimate it’s size and the variety of people out there. I mean just in one small city everyone is nearly different. I’ve dated american, cambodian, vietnames, spanish and all other sorts of people and they are so vastly different I could never picture them together. You’re not generally supposed to find the love of your life at your age, not even sometimes at my age or order, dating is just meant to help you recognize that person when you do. Don’t despair, keep dating, noticing what you like and don’t like about certain partners and eventually you’ll start finding the kind of people possess the main qualities you liked and want in someone until you find the person who has them all.

xoxjaime wrote:
Well I know their wrong. But for some reason I go for the bad ones. And they go for me. And I don’t know what to do about it.

dont go there, its not hard, its only attraction, Just Say NO!
There are feelings much deeper than attraction that can only be felt with time, learning and bonding with a person, if you allow your temptation for attraction to win over you desires for a deeper connection you ill miss every opportunity for a real man to show you how its done, trust me, I wasted my time, heart and mentality with those bad boys, theyre just as bad a lay, hold out for a real man

just leave evrything for sometimes and live a normal life for sometime
everything will be fine and then you can see someone who you really need and who can understand you

you’re talking to younger guys right? How old are you? Guys under the age of 22-25 are a huge waste of time and aren’t worth dating. Relationships really can’t work than because of guy’s immaturity.

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xoxjaime wrote:
Well I know their wrong. But for some reason I go for the bad ones. And they go for me. And I don’t know what to do about it.

dont go there, its not hard, its only attraction, Just Say NO!
There are feelings much deeper than attraction that can only be felt with time, learning and bonding with a person, if you allow your temptation for attraction to win over you desires for a deeper connection you ill miss every opportunity for a real man to show you how its done, trust me, I wasted my time, heart and mentality with those bad boys, theyre just as bad a lay, hold out for a real man

true. But deep down, every girl wants a challenge, and a nice guy with AN EDGE. Boring nice guys don’t get anywhere in this society unfortunately.

What is a nice guy with AN EDGE exactly?
I dont think we’re talking about a nice guy with an edge here, this sounds like a jerk that lead her on, and if this is the sort of character she means when she says bad ones then I defiantly advise to stay away, it’s not a challenge to make someone care for you, that can never work, its a waste of time and the answer to the question, why is this girl getting ditched, because you can not change another person, if you want to be treated right you need to spend your time with people that DO treat other people right, especially you!