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is there still a chance?

my online bf sent me this email after not talking to me for 2 months.

Dear ———,

I don’t know where to start or what to write after all that has happened. But it would be wrong on my part if i don’t even write you mail after all u have written to me. I am very sorry for not even leaving you an offie or a mail. But you must know why I didn’t talk to you or leave u a message. I’ll try my best to clarify my stand.

I am presently in —-. It’s been over a month since I have started my work here. I never wanted to leave you the way I did but then I knew and realized I was just coming in the way of you getting a good life partner. I have told you many times that you are still very young and that there are so many better guys out there with whom you can spend your life. We have just chatted online and I am not sure anymore whether I can ever come to the —- and meet you. My schedule is so full and hectic that I fear I can’t lead a normal family life. I don’t wanna spoil your life by making any false promises. You are smart, young and intelligent enuff to know this. It is true that I have loved you truly n I still do but I fear it won’t work out the way we have planned. So after much thought I decided it was best I never contacted you n that you find a better person with whom you can spend the rest of ur life. It hurts me too to leave you like this but I think this is how things are headed.

Maybe I just need a little time and space. I have made no contacts with any of my frens except my office colleagues. I am in a new world, a new country and with such a busy office schedule I am completely tired n drained out. I was always going to write you a mail but I thought I wud give myself some time to write to you. I hope u’ll understand n forgive me. I don’t hate you n I never will. I have always loved you n u’ll always be my cuppy cake.

—– my angel loves it so much here. She has got new frens n she is growing ever so fast. —– is a beautiful country, the people here are so open and so warm hearted. I felt at home the day I touched down in —–. The night life here is so full of lights n festivities. The city is so clean and well maintained and the goods too are very cheap and the food is just so great. I wish you were here. —— has joined school which is run by catholics here. The house I am living is small but in a month or so I will be moving to a bigger house. Too bad I can’t make a matrix room in this house but it wont be long before I get back my matrix room.

I hope you are doing well with ur business and work. Take good care of urself and always be positive in life. I may or may not come back again but the time I spent with you was the best times of my life. I am never gonna marry or have any relationship with anyone again. —— is all I have n I hope and pray that we will oneday meet in person. Wishing you the best in life.

Regards,
Lots of love,
———

what should i do, fight for him or let him go? i feel so lost without him and i love him very very much.

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