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Sometimes when you have a problem…

it is best to ask someone that knows all the people involved in person,
and has nothing to do with the situation.

not very common, but if you got one you can trust, go for it.

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guster32 offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (56 minutes after post)

Been there, and did it-not working-they turn on you after awhile-all people care about is money and if you’re not making it, they stay away. They are afraid they might have to help. I have learned a great lesson in this financial slump of mine-I can trust me and that is it. Me, Me, Me,-that’s it-so as far as me jumping to the rescue as I have done so often, I shall make myself Scarce, Scarce, Scarce

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An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (2 hours, 40 minutes after post)

was talking more about junk of the heart stuff…
money is something else.
money is something you should never ask of other people.
especially your friends and family.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (3 hours, 1 minute after post)

Well, they have certainly asked it of me over the years, that’s what friends and family are for, no matter what you need-people act like money is sacred, good friend-ships and love is sacred, money is just that-money-if you have it, you should help, at least some help to people who have been there for you all of your life. Ad for love and relationships, if it is meant to be it will be-it is and always has been that simple-I would like to see some of my so-called friends that just love me and now they stay away since I am not working, I would like to see them when their butts are in a sling and they are too paranoid to go to a doc so they call me to save them and often I have helped-well, I guess it is time to start charging-since they aren’t helping any other way-I grow weary of takers that don’t know how to give-situations of the heart are best kept to yourself and just let it take its natural, normal course-like I said earlier-you either dig somebody or ya don’t-it is not rocket science-sorry, it is a very bad day, I hope you find what you are looking for and your statement is rather ambiguous anyway, it does matter who you talk to especially if it is other women that don’twant to see you happy-sabotage 101-I never took the class and didn’t have a clue for years-I learnedthe hard way by trial and error-best to keep yourmouth shut to people who can really hurt you by telling others or setting you up

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An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (12 hours, 40 minutes after post)

ok ok,
first of all, the reason you should never take money from others is that you never appreciate the things you do with it as much as it is your own money, its in the subconscious, then whatever you do with it is wasted.

i am sorry you didn’t find people you can trust, it is a very paranoid point of view assuming everybody are looking for ways to hurt you.
you gotta ask yourself, do they have a good reason for that?
is it something in the way you act or the way you think that brings this upon you?
because truth is not like that.

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