Love help: I want to be able to give up all of the drama in my life, but I don’t know how. - Help.com

change your mentality. decide who you want to be, then fake it till you make it.

it sounds silly, but it’s not: it’s actually reconditioning and reprogramming.

I read a description of a personality type who “rages against the ordinary”, always looking to be rescued.

The problem is you don’t ever get to settle down and enjoy real life and responsibility, which is the only way to make progress in life and earn respect from other people.

The best way to live is to make small steps every day. After a year, you are 365 steps closer to your goals. Every commitment you keep, every good decision you make leads to new opportunities and new trust from other people.

That is a solid foundation.

Maybe you need something different to replace it. Try doing a lot more funner things or something for an adrenniline rush perhaps? Sounds odd but its just a though, i havent selpt well lately so maybe this is bad or unrelated and i cant tell lol