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I’m sad because i feel like no one understands me or even cares about me.

I feel alone and like nothing is ever going right. I always try my best and its like nothing is ever good enouph for people. They shout “TRY,TRY,TRY!” and “Wow i hate you” right in front of my face. How would you feel? Does anyone care? Does anyone feel the same way I do?

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

what is your first name.If I may ask?

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JaneRoe offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Always remember, you’re not alone. To some extent, we all feel like nobody really gets us. (Or at least i do, hehe) it’s hard, but don’t give up. eventually you’ll find someone with whom you connect ***hugssss***

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

i dont want to share that. Sorry.

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arcamean offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

My name is Tom, and I understand what you mean, anonymous. I have family that cares, but doesn’t understand why I could be depressed. Apperantly its suppose to be somthing you just snap out of…

If I find a way out of my own hole ive dug for myself, ill try and share my inspiration.

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usurper offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

So someone told you they hate you because you tried to help them?

I’m confused.

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usurper offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

arcamean wrote:
My name is Tom, and I understand what you mean, anonymous. I have family that cares, but doesn’t understand why I could be depressed. Apperantly its suppose to be somthing you just snap out of…

If I find a way out of my own hole ive dug for myself, ill try and share my inspiration.

Do YOU understand why you’re depressed? Who cares what they think about it?

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231me231 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

welcome to the real world!! no one understand anyone completely, you should know that now before you do anything stupid. my family hates me, its been told to my face too. so plz dont think your alone, coz your not, i wont be able to understand you, but we can give you a perspective from a different point of view. to make you understand that no matter how bad off you are, there is always someone worse off

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aeolian mode offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
Rocklin, CA, US | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

Heres the kick, even if you improve yourself nobody really cares….Its only up to us as individuals to care about ourselves because the truth is you cant rely on anybody to care….

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6 months, 2 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

People are just the added bonus to having to do it on your own.

aeolian mode wrote:
Heres the kick, even if you improve yourself nobody really cares….Its only up to us as individuals to care about ourselves because the truth is you cant rely on anybody to care….

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Just remember that as long as you have yourself and people who like you, you’re never alone.
Even if you don’t like that people at times, they still care 99% of the time.
:)

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aeolian mode offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
Rocklin, CA, US | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 15 hours after post)

My point was you cant rely on someone else to prop you up.. In the real world ,in my humble experience, is that you can only count on yourself, and even if you loose the weight, get a great paying job, dress great, eat great, in truth not too many people really care…So in conclusion, I would say self improvement is done for you…

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