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I’m unsure about everything in my life: relationship, career, self, everything!
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Marijuana. :) Find your perfect environment to use it and it will be you happiness. :)
I wish I could help you, but I am feeling the same way. For the last year i have felt this way and I still wonder if anything is out there for me. If you come up with any solutions let me know.
My friends and family both have told me “to just to do whatever I need to and eventually everything will fall into place. Everything happens for a reason and you should just get through it the best you can and not worry about it.”
maybe this advice will help you more than it has me.
right, not a good idea when I’m looking for work. It’s called “drug test”.
nope, I’ve heard that generic advice every 2 weeks. Im thinking either join the military or hope one day these meds will take me out like they did to heath ledger…
626ta wrote:
nope, I’ve heard that generic advice every 2 weeks. Im thinking either join the military or hope one day these meds will take me out like they did to heath ledger…
That should work too………
I think everyone goes through this feeling at some point in their life. Eventually when you get to the point where you just can’t take anymore, you have to look at yourself in the mirror and think, are you the person you want to be? I know how cheesy that sounds but it’s true. You won’t find happiness in career, let alone in another person until you can be happy with yourself. You just have to look through all the BS and decide what kind of person you want to be.
I recently went through what you are going through, the whole self-doubt thing and it took a lot of soul searching before I could really get my life back on track.
I hope this helps a little bit lol.
listen to the sunscreen song. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQlJ3v…
[Don’t feel guilty if you don’t know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn’t know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don’t.]
although society tends to impose that idea on you as some kind of requirement to a happy life, and most people look like they are sure about where they’re heading, the fact is the most people don’t have a clue.
just don’t feel bad about it - keep yourself entertained, look for what brings purpose to your life - it’s different for each of us. i don’t know if you’re a spiritual person or not, but this is usually how it works - you need to lose sight of the shore sometimes.
Yay, all happy cheery thoughts BUT I’m 31, been laid off twice in the past 12 months, broke, unemployed yet AGAIN. So it’s not like I’m just going thru a phase and I’m not some ignorant 22 yr old trying to ‘find myself’…I’ve found myself quite a few times, and only like what I’ve seen 1 out of 4 per say.
I’ll listen to the song later, thanks.
I’ve been diagnosed with DP, depression, and am starting to think what the **** is the point?? It appears I’m now unemployable after graduating with honors with an IT degree, working 2-3 great jobs since college and making **** loads of money and now to this….fun stuff.
I will kill myself that’s how I want my life to go…….
Maybe you guys should try picking up a bible and seeking GOD! yea it may sound cheesy,But it worked for me. God is more real than any pain, drug, or disease out there and he’s bigger than any problem you guys have or will ever have. trust me i accepted christ as my lord and savior at the age of 19, im 25 now but i’ll tell you my life has never been the same. Up untill then i had no hopes, dreams, or anything… i litterally thought i was gonna die it was just a matter of days, seconds, my clock was ticking and fast. But Christ change my life now i have 2 wonderfull kids a loving and understanding husband not to mention good looking.. lol and were expecting our third baby by febuary. Depresion, anxiety, and suicide are no longer a part of my life and there is never a dull moment anymore. I now live and look at life like something so precious and valuable, now i know i am not a mistake, it is not a coinsidence that so many thing have happend in my mind and life and i am still here. he has a purpose for me, i am here 2 make a diffrence wether its with you or the 8th reader that comes across this writting or with one of my own children. To prevent them from feeling or thinking the way i did.And let me tell youthose lies that go through your mind… nobody loves me, i am not worthy, i’ll never amount to anything, there is no point in living, are just that LIES! THE DEVIL IS A LIAR!!! so stop allowing him to fill hour head up with garbage. i am a “LIVING” testimony to others there there is light at the end of the tunnel.because there was nobody out there more suicidle, more stuborn, more lonely, or more disoriented than myself, and if GOD saved me he can do the same for you… I declare it in the name of JESUS for by his stripes you are heald. start slow download and see if christian praise and worship music can sooth your pain, or talk to a pastor, go to church,go to GODTUBE, OR SIMPLY READ THE BIBLE and get to know your creator and where you come from. But please dont make the same mistake i did and listen to others in your same shoes. IT NEVER HELPED ME! remember misery loves company and they will only bring you down deeper. search for help from someone that is positive with good advice and a positive outlook in life, wich is what you need. No more depression, claim your life and start living again because you are a child of GOD! Hope i was of some help… GOD BLESS YOU. REMEMBER YOU ARE NOT A MISTAKE, THE LORD HAS A PURPOSE FOR YOU HE WANTS TO HELP YOU… HE JUST NEEDS YOU TO LET HIM INTO YOUR LIFE. IT STARTS IN YOU!
AprilDiva2 wrote:
Maybe you guys should try picking up a bible and seeking GOD!
right, that’s an option too. if you want to join one of the biggest cults on earth, with millions of brainwashed followers, large scale corruption, and society integrated lies, pick a religion. any religion will do, they’re all equal(ly stupid).
you should try and watch zeitgeist (google it)…
Yeah no thanks on the religious ********, it’s not my thing. I agree with Gynan.
I feel religion, church is a business. It’s a cult.
I’m a non-practicing Jew so keep your bible and your bible talk to yourself. Not everyone feels that way and you sound completely brainwashed it makes me sick….dry heave.
take a hike, keep that **** off here and speak HUMAN
Stumbled across this and putting in my feedback.
Firstly I hope you are better off one month on…
But if not…
Firt of all stop moaning and insulting those who tried to help!!!
Just because someone mentioned religion and you dont agree with it, you could have just said thanks but no thanks and not be so rude.This person took the time to make a suggestion!
A change of attitude is the first thing you need to apply!!By being negative, rude, sarcastic, cynical etc etc you are digging yourself in deeper. And oh yes!! You will find people who will egg you on to keep such negative attitudes adn join them in their downward spiral! I KNOW!
If you have an honours degree in IT SURELY you can find a job!! Is travelling out of the country for work an option?? If so, pursue it!
I’m doing great started this post when I wasn’t. So “m_m1″ I don’t need your opinion, I mean who are you to me? Nobody.
I’ll be closing this now, as I don’t want to be bothered.
Peace
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