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U are engaged to a guy for 2 years, he dumps you out the blue.

When he breaks up with u he is cryin and wants space. you give him his space and you dont speak to him for 8 months and when u do he tells u he thinks of u everyday, looks for u wherever he goes, any song reminds him of u, he thinks of u when what would of been ur wedding song is played and said thats definatly our song, he still looks for u when he sees a car the same as urs and still hears u call charlie when he sees one the same (Charlie is a dog) and says its all good all good afterwards and he still has all ur numbers in his mobile and says he still has everything u have given him.

After that night you dont speak again, but bump into him 6 weeks on outside his work whilst he is on lunch he is nervous and gets emotional, asks how u r and what u been up to kisses u on the cheek and hugs u tight when he says bye.

Again u do not hear from him, but he bumps into ur best mate at a social club asks how u r, they tell him u have just had a operation but doing well. Again he gets emotional , shakes his head , walks of goes for a *** then leaves without saying bye.

u then drive down the road, he is standing there staring at the car and when u get in line with him he starts waving, then stares as u drive on.

This has been going on now for 15 months

What you u think is going on with him?

Sorry its long, hope it makes sence xx

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anubisblis offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

Sounds to me like he’s afraid of commitment or has something else going on that he never made you aware of.

It could be many things though. Maybe he wanted to explore other possibilities only to be dissatisfied. Or he may just not be the one for you, but never had the guts or will have the guts to tell you.

Definitely sounds suspicious though.

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