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This Long Weekend was the best, but…

I really need some help from the people of help.com :)
Here’s my story…
A night at my cottage, couple of buds, and the one girl I like… a lot :)
Somehow I end up hanging out with her and tell her of my sad past such as my inability to find a girl that i can enjoy to be around and admit my biggest secret.
I have never made out with a girl.
Complete word vomit,
under the influence of alcohol and delerious love i decided it was time to make my move, so i asked her to kiss me,
it was amazing, we continued to make out and when it was done i felt on top of the world.
Thinking about it now though i wonder, was it really because of who I am, or the fact that she felt sorry for me.
I like her a lot and am completely confused as to where to go, what to say blah blah blah. So anyone, with any advice on what i should ask her because im dying to know if it was anything near as fun for her as it was for me. Please guys, anything
I am 16 btw, good kid, just never really got into the whole aspect of making out and such :)

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ryan_mcgill7 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

Thanks guys…. really helping….

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optimismiles 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

don’t worry! i’m sure she wouldn’t have done it without there being some potential interest. and from a girl’s perspective, it’s not a bad thing when a guy isn’t experienced. give it time, don’t be clingy, see what’s happen. make sure to act the same around her, or not the same, but don’t act weird or awkward.

have you talked to her since?
keep me posted

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ryan_mcgill7 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

I have talked to her since but not about that, I’m afraid to bring it up cause i don’t want to hear that it meant nothing to her, it would probably crush me lol
I’ve tried to act the same as i did before this whole situation but its getting harder to do it without waning her :(

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souleaterd 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

i know you dont want to hear it but,she was just being nice
i just posted something like this called “ok”
im the same age
and if a girl feels sorry for you they’ll do that kinda stuff i know how you feel you just gotta get it out of your head and keep move foward.

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ryan_mcgill7 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

souleaterd wrote:
i know you dont want to hear it but,she was just being nice
i just posted something like this called “ok”
im the same age
and if a girl feels sorry for you they’ll do that kinda stuff i know how you feel you just gotta get it out of your head and keep move foward.

Yea man I’m beginning to see that, unfortunatly, some things aren’t meant to last :(

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optimismiles 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

i disagree soul. i think some girls would, but i know i wouldn’t. if i felt bad for a guy, say i was the girl in this situation, i would hint for him to go for someone else if i wasn’t even a bit interested. she could just be being friendly about it, but she at least finds you attractive and interesting because girls don’t hang out wiht people they don’t find interesting, and we don’t make out with people that we’re not attracted to at least a little bit. get flirty, and give it time. hint if you can, maybe mention how you should hang out again and party together… little things. don’t give up hope, but prepare yourself for anything. us girls, we can be very complicated at times so don’t expect a straight answer too soon.

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ryan_mcgill7 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

Thank you optimismiles :)
your helping alot, and now i see the situation from both sides.
amazing how different we are as males and females.
What do you think i should say to her in the meantime, just to kind of hint at the fact that i would like to know why she really kissed me?

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souleaterd 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

i think optimismiles is right,i think im jusr being bias cause the basicly the same think happened to me,listen to her not me

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ryan_mcgill7 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

no worries man, like i said on your post, there are always more girls.

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optimismiles 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

well, you could ask, or you cuold find out. i’d go with finding out. hint at hanging out again and see how willing she is. if she doesn’t jump to it, she could just be unsure so give it time. have the conversations with her been normal? no awkwardness?

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