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you might want to have a chat with your freind

Tell her about your experiences and why it’s so bad. Tell her how much you want to stop and how it’s affecting your life. Inform her about ow unhealthy is it and how bad for her it is. I went through this same thing with my friend. Just let her know your there and she doesn’t need to rely on cutting herself. Be there for her as much as possible and reassure her with your own stories and what it’s like for you.

All you can do is be there for her hun. But always let her know your there. Treat the situation like if it were you back when you first started. Do things you wish you could have done for yourself. Make sure she gets in through her head that this is a bad thing to start. It’s not your fault though Lisa. You didn’t make her do it. Just be there for her and support her through this.

All humans make mistakes that we just want to go back in time and fix. Unfortunatly, thats not possible. You sound like your a great friend and thats all you can do now, stay a good friend and be there. I’m sure everything will be fine.

shes cutting because it reminds her of him? a boyfreind?
sorry lisa for stalking your posts,

didnt mean to send that, unfinished.
But she will be fine..You’ve talked to her..and she said you helped.

hey angel, all you can do is talk to her about it, try and show her that it’s a bad idea. otherwise, it’s up to her unfortunately. but it isn’t your fault. it was her choice, not yours.

angel♥ wrote:
lol i dont matter if you stalk my posts (: lol

but yeah she is. they were like.. more than bf/gf… i cant explain it. i mean obviously they werent literally more… but they had this strong connection and idk..
but yeah… i hope i helped enough though…. :\

:/ yeah..she will be fine. she has you as a freind (:

Self harm is an addiction.
You cannot help someone who is not willing to help themself.
You can be there for her, be a shoulder to cry on but in the end it is her choice as to if she stops of not.
It sounds as though you and her may be sharing similar feelings? Do you self-harm?
If so, you may be the wrong person for her to be speaking with and yes, it could be possible that your outlet is somewhat becoming her outlet.
Professional help would be best.

i usedto cut my self when i was a teen into my 20s it a release to me so i felt somthing eles other then my emotions i stoped after i became a dad and thought to myself what if my kid walked in on me doing it and stuff like that another thing i did insted of cutting was hitting things like a brick wall or lockers or pillows but the pain i felt after i hit something helped after i stoped cutting for a long time it was easer to stop myself after i became a dad