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I had the same problem years ago, we moved to the middle of nowhere and i couldnt see my friends without having to get a 20 min car lift:(. Eventualy learning to drive solved that problem for me;) and ye being on your own during the weekends can suck but hey could be worse:)

its okay to be like that, to be whiney..even though i dont think you were, and im sorry that there like that, please hang in there.

PollyinLove wrote:
No driving for me for a little while :P

Yeah, I hate whiney posts usually….But meh. I needed a good moan!

Not whiney at all;) and even if it was thats what help.com is all about

I dont think you were being whiney at all.
I think that this is gonna be a hard time for you, but stick in there. You never know, you might find great new friends at this school. Not saying you should forget your old ones.. do you keepin contact with them through facebook or myspace or msn? Cause i know its not the same, but its better than nothing.
As for your mum and arguing, most families do go through it. Im guessing she knows your not happy you moved, but i doubt she will have done it to usept you. Try not to argue with her as much, think about all the things she might be thinking too. You never know, she probably doesnt like it either and wants it to stop.
Try talking to her. that normally helps.
If all else fails maybe try speaking to a student counsellor at school?
Good luck
x

I wouldn’t call it whining at all. You’re obviously just realy stressed, and apparently so is the whole family. If you’ve just gone through a move, then this is all completely normal. I’m sure it doesn’t feel normal at the moment, because its all extremely stressful, but believe me, it’ll pass over time :) for now, just try to feel better. maybe meet some new people, and get out of the house for a while. Just take a good walk and keep in touch with your friends that you had to leave behind.

Feel better polly :)

If i were you i would put on nice outfet , look very attractive then go to a nice place and have fun .

You don’t need to be with company to have fun. I fight with my mum all the time too but recently i tried to ignore her actions and don’t talk back to her or even dehend myself . i just let her talk then leave . i feel better now & she started to give up on me :D

Everything will work it’s way out in time. Life is all about changes so just take this as a lesson in life. Besides, being alone sometimes is a good thing. I usally enjoy being by myself some, it gives me time to think and prioritize things. Find a good book to read, sometimes this will take you away from your problems.
You could write something, draw something, there are lots of things that you can do with this time

As far as your mom goes, you should tell her exactly how you are feeling and treat her as kindly as possible. I’m sure she cares alot about how you feel. I have two children and i certainly care how they feel. This to shall pass!