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Hey, my wife caught me with a book that explains how to be successfull with women.

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 339 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (1 minute after post)

Oops.

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kain16 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Miss.Megg. wrote:
Um, ya!
Your wife probably feels like you don’t think that your relationship has been successful and she is probably rethinking your marriage.
Give her space. Let her think.
But don’t blame her for anything. It is kind of your fault.

kinda jumping to conclusions there but nvm, and yeah that is kinda a Doh moment. Why were you reading it out of interest?

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6 months ago (6 minutes after post)

yep, just out of curiosity, the book was a bestseller. That’s all…

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usurper offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Depends on why you were reading the book.

If it was to be more successful with her, then there is nothing to feel bad about - I mean if that is the honest truth then tell her that.

If it was to meet other women…then you need to learn to be stealthier with your adulterous endeavors.

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kain16 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
yep, just out of curiosity, the book was a bestseller. That’s all…

Well then theres no problem really just keep it more secret in future;)

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usurper offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
yep, just out of curiosity, the book was a bestseller. That’s all…

Then tell her that! If its the honest truth that you were just curious then its silly for her to be mad about it. If she doesn’t believe you, then that is a trust issue she needs to work out for herself.

All you can do is be honest.

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Jcraigmaverick7 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Just explain that you are reading material so that you can have a better relationship. Unless you were trying to get other women, in that case you’re not playing the game fair!

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Anonymous #
6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Will do. Really appreciate the help. Love that site…

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kain16 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Miss.Megg. wrote:

kain16 wrote:
Miss.Megg. wrote:
Um, ya!
Your wife probably feels like you don’t think that your relationship has been successful and she is probably rethinking your marriage.
Give her space. Let her think.
But don’t blame her for anything. It is kind of your fault.

kinda jumping to conclusions there but nvm, and yeah that is kinda a Doh moment. Why were you reading it out of interest?

I just wrote what I thought. No shame in that.

nono its fine;) hence why i put the nvm

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LocoLamigra31 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 6 months ago (17 minutes after post)

I got caught with weed once and told em I was holding on to it for a friend maybe do the same? or say one of your friends needed advice and your just trying to help or there is always the good well my single friends are trying to pick up girls cause they are ready to settle down and i just want to be a good wing man. I guess I should have just asked you I’m sorry honey and give her a flower =)

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (23 minutes after post)

I remember one time I was a reading a book on how to improve my memory!

The phone rang and I put the book down.

After I finished talking on the phone, I could not remember where I had left the book!

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usurper offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (25 minutes after post)

LocoLamigra31 wrote:
I got caught with weed once and told em I was holding on to it for a friend maybe do the same? or say one of your friends needed advice and your just trying to help or there is always the good well my single friends are trying to pick up girls cause they are ready to settle down and i just want to be a good wing man. I guess I should have just asked you I’m sorry honey and give her a flower =)

You are dating the wrong girls if you need to ask them before you read a book, my friend…

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2greeneyes offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Midvale, UT, US | 6 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Tell her honestly why you were reading it. Were you looking to improve your relationship? Looking for a better relationship? Improve your game? Hmmmm, imagine what she must be thinking. Not good thoughts Im sure. She may think your on the hunt and improving your skills. She may think you want someone better than her. Oh dear, what a mess. Be honest with her, were you just curious what works with us mysterious women? Well good luck, you guys won’t ever figure that out.
Tell her to read “Act like a lady, think like a man”.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Poster, do you think it would have been better if your wife had caught you with a book on how to be a loser with women?

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