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alexanguish

I feel nothing.

I just found out some pretty huge news about my sister and i dont know how i feel about it. I dont feel sad or happy or exited or nervous or anything and i think i really should. I also just went on my daily jog but as i was feeling particually fat today so i decided to sprint as far as i could. i got about 6 miles and passed out.. i woke up feeling really really dizzy and i threw up on myself. I then ran back home using what was left of my strength and my amazing determination and to be honest i didnt feel upset or angry or what have you, i felt kind of proud of myself.
I was just wondering if anyone could clarify why im feeling so strange..?

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littlenick 148 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

You overexerted yourself and it caught up with you. Don’t do that again. You can really hurt yourself if you run too fast and don’t pace yourself.

alexanguish 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

thanks little nick x

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

I am by no means a doctor or in anyway involved in medicine, so take this as anecdotal at best. But generally, even though you “feel nothing” big news - bad or good - puts a lot of stress on the body. Stress has very real physical manifestations, especially in the immediate moments. It sounds to me that you are still in a state of emotional shock and are still absorbing the information (took me months to process my wife leaving me). When you ran, you pushed yourself too far.

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mrs c 831 #
GB | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (14 hours, 20 minutes after post)

is your sister pregnant??

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alexanguish 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours, 33 minutes after post)

angie :) wrote:
is your sister pregnant??

Yes, she is..

mrs c 831 #
GB | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours, 34 minutes after post)

why are you so alarmed?
is she young??

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alexanguish 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours, 39 minutes after post)

She is 17 years old and i think she was pregnant late last year, but lost it.

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GB | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours, 41 minutes after post)

right..is this why your so confused,you think shes gona miss again??

how old are you hun?

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alexanguish 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours, 47 minutes after post)

I’m 16. I don’t know why she lost it last time, I think it was something to do with her boyfriend as he wasn’t all that nice to her, If you know what I mean. I just don’t feel like this is how it’s meant to be for her. I know that most people believe that having a baby completely screws up your life and such, but some think it’s the best thing you could do. The fact that she is 17 concerns me, because she is in her first year of college it’s going to take away most of her chances of getting the most out of her life.

mrs c 831 #
GB | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours, 49 minutes after post)

mm,is she with the same lad as before?

not all babys screw up lives..it depends on their background&support they are recieving :)

as she talked to you about it? as she mentioned termination?

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alexanguish 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours, 54 minutes after post)

She is still with him :/
I don’t want to talk to her about it because i feel uncomfortable about it..
She is 4 months into the pregnancy and is going to keep the baby.

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GB | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (17 hours, 2 minutes after post)

mmm,as he ever tried it on with you??
why are you so against him?

why are you so uncomfortable about it?
how do your parents feel??

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alexanguish 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (17 hours, 5 minutes after post)

No he hasnt :S

But it’s because he used to hit her and things and i read her MSN conversations (i know its bad) and she had been hiding all of this abuse from us.

i dont know how my mum feels about it she says she is “quite exited” but i know from her body language that she is not.

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GB | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (17 hours, 10 minutes after post)

mmm, this must be hard for you,having to sit back&pretend everythings ok..when it clearly is not!

so hes cheated on her too?

your a good sister you know,but when things like this happen&she dont listen
all you can do is be there for her&pick up the pieces :/

17,your lifes only just beginning! shes going to college etc*what a time for it to happen eh!*

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alexanguish 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (17 hours, 36 minutes after post)

They both cheated on each other.

and meh, i’ll deal with it ^^

it’ll be all ok in the end right? as long as she’s happy ^^

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GB | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (17 hours, 38 minutes after post)

mm,so their both partly to blame :/

you know,if its really bothering you that much..you should say something
nothing gets sorted if you let things eat you within :)

well,fingers crossed it will be fine hun:)

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