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so, about a week ago my boyfriend broke up with me.

then later that afternoon he told me he still loved me but it is all complicated. Two days later he tells me on facebook that he broke up with me cause his therapist told him to (he goes to a therapist cause he just recently went into a depression). which i think is the GAYEST reason ever, and my friends think the therapist is a quack. so a couple days later i go and look at his myspace and his status on it went from being in a relationship with me, to single, to in a relationship. the day before he broke up with me he went to his semi with another girl cause the school wouldnt allow me to go, which i was already kinda worried that something would happen, which he said nothing would…i now think that is complete BS. he also said a couple of days ago that im single and shouldnt just wait for him, he also said i could talk about boys to him if i really wanted to cause he knows my friends are extreamly judgemental, so i told him about the offer from my guy friend about goofing off together. i IM’d him this morning asking if he had asked his date to the semi to be his girlfriend. then i got pissed cause i over think things and said “i f***ing hate you!” “Im done with you and you BS, if you really like me than youll prove to me that you do, and that i have a reason to stick around in your f***ing life.” my parents said a couple of days ago that they think he is playing me, next saturday would be out ten month if we were still dating. do you think i am being reasonable or over reacting? please give me some advice on what the heck to do right in this confusing horrible situation…im a teenager and i need more opinions then i have..

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

Dump this loser. And stop worrying about romantic relationships. You are still young and there are many fish in the sea. You don’t want to get tied down before you’re in your 20’s and the way you’re going, you’ll be barefoot, pregnant and alone before you reach your 20th birthday. The world is big and there are so many fascinating things to see, people to meet and experiences to be had. Focus on your studies and open your world to more than the small world that’s in your school, your neighborhood and your family. Travel overseas, learn to fly, give to others and the love of your life will find you. Trust me.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

well let me tell you i am also a teenager and i had a relationship like exactly the same as this one i mean everything and your parents believe it or not are right this boy is playin ya cuz thats what ended up happening to me i didnt wanty to listen when people told me he was playin me but i wish cause they were all right i would say just completly forget about him and move on and find someone who wants you and treats you like a princess and i know it sounds like that will never happen but did and i found the guy i think i want to spend the rest of my life with so good luck hun!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

Seems a bit iffy what happened especially with the therapist, be careful and don’t get ‘played’

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