boyfriend help: i think im going into depression..

Reverend Twitch

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i think im going into depression..

again. im having boyfriend problems.

i need someone to talk to!

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Eddieee 100 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Got to love those help bots. Anything I can do?

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Reverend Twitch 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

well, i havent talked to my boyfriend in about 2 weeks, he’s been ignoring me.

(i live in california and he lives in las vegas)

we visit each other like evey 2 weeks

last time i visited him i accidently took one of his shirts, and a few days later he called me, completely weirded out thinking i stole his shirt.

i told him sorry and that id return it to him (of course)

im on his cellphone plan, and he hasnt paid the bill for either of us.

ill be in vegas in about a week

what should i do?

Reverend Twitch 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

i try to ignore the fact hes not talking to me, but now i feel like im getting worse everyday, like my prozac isnt helping anymore and i just keep getting really anxious and depressed feeling.

Eddieee 100 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

Sounds like you and he have some talking to do. Forget the pills. They won’t fix this. Let him know how you feel.

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Reverend Twitch 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

he wont talk to me though..ive tried calling his best friend and his work, the best friend wont ever answer me, and when i call his work ill be on hold for a few minutes then they say that he doesnt work that day.(which i know is a lie)

umm..i feel pissed, sad, and useless.

sheilarocks6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

Prozac IS the problem. Why is everybody on these **** meds? WHY? Are you aware of the side effects? Maybe if you get out the info on these drugs and read you may have a light bulb moment and realize what the **** is wrong? THese drugs screw with normal neurological functions. Read all about them and then think about why your life is so screwed up. I had a good friend that was taking Paxil, and she is out of here, for good. She had so much to live for. Hundreds of people were devastated. There was a class action law suit against that particular one last year and it just disappeared. That tells me the drug company paid off a lot of people.You cannot be rational on these drugs. What I am saying is the truth. Listen or not, but at least I care enough to tell you the truth. A relationship cannot withstand these drugs, either. Judgement is clouded, wrong decisions are made. Paranoia sets in. Nobody trusts anybody. It is a horrible way to live.

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Eddieee 100 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

Ouch…You must see past this then. Start over. Find somehow to begin again.

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Reverend Twitch 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

sheila, im way better now that i am on Prozac, im SO much better than i was a few years ago. it works for some people, and some people it doesnt work for. And, my life isnt screwed up thank you.

sheilarocks6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

Well, I guess you told me didn’t you? You will see. So sorry ahead of time. And when it comes crashing down, and it will because of these chemicals, think of someone that tried to warn you. Don’t bother responding. Too many of you folks are on drugs that are altering your thought processes. There is no reason for me to be here. Deaf ears and all that. I shall go some place where people are not under the influence. I don’t mean everyone, so don’t get your knickers in a wad! but a lot of you have been fed meds and cannot function because of it and you just don’t have a clue. I have seen it all. You need to find alternatives to chemicals.

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sum 2 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

Sounds like you need to work with your boyfriend and talk to him, you have trust issues both of you and longer distance relationships need more trust.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Twitch…I hope you don’t mind me calling you that…I hope things are going better with you in general and with your boyfriend too. If not, concerning the boyfriend…I think that there may be some issues that you should talk about if you really want to keep him as your boyfriend without going insane.

1. The whole shirt thing- it should b>not /b> have gone that far. So what you accidentally took home one of his shirts? It’s a SIMPLE fix, you find it, launder it, put it in a box/big padded envelope and send it out. It should have been an “oops, *giggles* guess I wasn’t paying attention when I was packing, get it in the mail tomorrow.”
2. The phone issue- since it doesn’t look like he’s accepting your calls it will be hard to work that out. It seems odd though that he would endanger his own credit line to get back at you, or in general be petty. Maybe he needs a helping hand on the bills and doesn’t know how to ask? On the other hand, if he’s doing it to be spiteful…do you really want to be with a man like that?

Concerning you…I hope things are going well. I also suffer from depression. I am on Effexor XR. Sometimes you need some meds for it…but remember all the meds in the world won’t do you a shred of good if you aren’t pulling yourself up at the same time. A visualization, if I may, you have been taken down about 50 feet in the ocean…the ocean in this visualization is depression…you are given an air tank…these represent the medications you get, the moral support from friends and family, etc.. Now this is all well and good, you can hang around there for a period of time…but remember…all air tanks have limits. Friends and family will move away, medications may lose effectiveness. This is accepted fact. You have to take it in your own hands to strike out for the surface. Counseling, learning techniques for coping with depression, learning your signs so that before you go under that water you are sure you aren’t going to drown.

I’m sorry if this is all the same old same old stuff. I don’t mean to preach, I just hope that I can be of some assistance.

Twitch...I hope you don't mind me calling you that...I hope things are going better with you in general and with your boyfriend too.  If not, concerning the boyfriend...I think that there may be some issues that you should talk about if you really want to keep him as your boyfriend without going insane.

1. The whole shirt thing- it should  b>not /b> have gone that far.  So what you accidentally took home one of his shirts?  It's a SIMPLE fix, you find it, launder it, put it in a box/big padded envelope and send it out.  It should have been an "oops, *giggles* guess I wasn't paying attention when I was packing, get it in the mail tomorrow."  
2. The phone issue- since it doesn't look like he's accepting your calls it will be hard to work that out.  It seems odd though that he would endanger his own credit line to get back at you, or in general be petty.  Maybe he needs a helping hand on the bills and doesn't know how to ask?  On the other hand, if he's doing it to be spiteful...do you really want to be with a man like that?

Concerning you...I hope things are going well.  I also suffer from depression.  I am on Effexor XR.  Sometimes you need some meds for it...but remember all the meds in the world won't do you a shred of good if you aren't pulling yourself up at the same time.  A visualization, if I may, you have been taken down about 50 feet in the ocean...the ocean in this visualization is depression...you are given an air tank...these represent the medications you get, the moral support from friends and family, etc..  Now this is all well and good, you can hang around there for a period of time...but remember...all air tanks have limits.  Friends and family will move away, medications may lose effectiveness.  This is accepted fact.  You have to take it in your own hands to strike out for the surface.  Counseling, learning techniques for coping with depression, learning your signs so that before you go under that water you are sure you aren't going to drown.

I'm sorry if this is all the same old same old stuff.  I don't mean to preach, I just hope that I can be of some assistance.

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