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my girlfreind

my girlfreind said she wants to spend time with her girlfreinds two nights a week. and i cant join along because her freinds dont like me. she said it like in a bitchy attitude and it made me feel like ****. i acted cool about it of course and just reminded her that last time she said this she went to party and we got in a big fight and broke up. and the thing is i wouldnt have a problem with it but thats all her freinds do is freakin party.. what do i do?

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fractal.scatter online Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 284 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

Accept that this is the way your girlfriend is and that makes her who she is. So why are you wanting to charnge her all of a sudden if you didn’t like too much who she is.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

Sounds like she’s getting ready to break up with you. Dump her like a bad habit!

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US | 6 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

mmm every one knows it’s about confidence keep acting like you don’t care and go out with your guy friends party a little bit come back and just be happy. Don’t let her get to you. How ever chances are this could be bad because her girlfriends may try and persway her to cheat/break up on you if they don’t like you it happened 2 me last night =( oh i’m sad littlenick hold me!

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Do you trust her?

If you think she’s going to a party or out with her girlfriends for the purpose of meeting other guys, or if she is prone to questionable behavior while drinking, ask yourself why you are with someone like that. You can’t, and shouldn’t, try to change someone. Being with a person is about loving who they are, not making them into what you want, or what you think they should be. Trust me, us women are guilty of that a lot! I’d say get it over with, and try going out and meeting a girl who has the qualities you like about this one, and none of the qualities you *don’t* like about this one. :)

Also, you said the last time this happened she went to a party and you got in a fight and broke up….why? What was the fight about?

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6 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

wordofthelaur wrote:
Do you trust her?

If you think she’s going to a party or out with her girlfriends for the purpose of meeting other guys, or if she is prone to questionable behavior while drinking, ask yourself why you are with someone like that. You can’t, and shouldn’t, try to change someone. Being with a person is about loving who they are, not making them into what you want, or what you think they should be. Trust me, us women are guilty of that a lot! I’d say get it over with, and try going out and meeting a girl who has the qualities you like about this one, and none of the qualities you *don’t* like about this one. :)

Also, you said the last time this happened she went to a party and you got in a fight and broke up….why? What was the fight about?

she was just being shady. and when she drinks and im not around she tends to do that. your right. good advoce thanks

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