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My friend stopped talking to me for no reason.

It’s crazy but I don’t have the slightest ideas as to why she would stop talking to me. Everything was fine and then i started noticing her pushing me away. I would log into my pc and simultaneously I receive the IM message that she has logged off. At work she started putting her status as busy or away, when I know for sure she can’t be away from her desk all day long. I know that I didn’t do anything wrong. I refuse to approach her about it because I think its just childish, if I didn’t do anything wrong why should I even bother. Why would I want to be friends again when she can go around and do it all over again. So I took her off my myspace page, removed her from my instant messages and moved on. The bad thing is that we work for the same company, but luckily we work at different floors. This was a person that would IM me to go to our breaks, go to our lunches and even IM me at home. So weird. Was I wrong in removing all forms of connection with her after what she has done to me for no known reason?

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[Pae] offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

There’s a lot of things that could be the reason. Do you think it’s possible someone is talking about you to her?

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Broke Again :( offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

No, I really was a good friend. I never talked bad about her or anything. My conscious is really clear when it concerns that. I know it can’t ba a he said she said situation because I never would bad mouth her. The only thing I can think of is that she has returned back to her husband and is probably ashamed of telling me. She had a bad relationship with her spouse and they have been going back and forth. The last time we spoke she said this was it, the end. But, I always told her that whatever she decided to do was her business and no one can really tell her what she should do. Because of this, I don’t see the reason why she would stop talking too me because I never judged her. I never told her you should do this or that. We were friends for a long time and it really hurts not knowing especially when in your mind you know that you didn’t do anything wrong. But my pride to confront her about it is too strong. I figure if its space that she wants, then that’s what she’ll get. I guess I’m also stubborn but I feel I have a right to be stubborn since I didn’t initiate this.

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[Pae] offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

I really think you should talk to her about it on a mature level. It sounds to me, like she’s being a little immature. If it’s bothering you, you should get to the bottom of it. Especially if you’re both good friends.

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Broke Again :( offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

I might do that, but I will never consider her my friend again. Unfortunately, it won’t be the same. You only do me wrong once. I may forgive, but I will never forget. Just the way it is.

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[Pae] offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

Right. Plus if she’s acting this way, maybe it’s best. Friends don’t do that.

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Broke Again :( offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Thanks for your help Pae :) Whenever I feel down, this site always picks me right up :)

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[Pae] offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

No problem. :)

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Debrad1207 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Tampa, FL, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (41 minutes after post)

she may be going through something and want to be alone

it will probably pass

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

=)

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