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I’ve been feeling sort of down lately, well i guess more than lately, and maybe somebody could offer me some advice?

The first thing thats got me bummed out is that I don’t have a boyfriend. My first boyfriend was in grade eleven (three years ago). It was my only one. I try to stay patient but its really hard sometimes. I’m a very pretty girl, everyone always tells me, plus i’m in esthetics so i know a lot about personal image and how to do a good makeup job and that so its not my looks. I’m friendly and open to others. I mean I know the bar is a good place to go but I don’t have many people to go there with where I am now (though i’ll be moving in two weeks) and i’m a little skeptic. I’m worried that i might run into the wrong sort of person there, or all i’ll see is drunks acting dumb. I really want someone to love and to love me back. I’ve tried online dating but it just wasn’t for me. I feel more comfortable when I meet someone in person. The other thing thats been worrying me is my future. I know what my goal is its just how to get there. Ever since i can remember i’ve wanted to be a singer. That has lead into an actress. I took esthetics so that i would have a fall back plan in case of tough times. But nobody warned me how demanding esthetics is. If i do this I won’t have the spare time to work towards my real goal. But if i don’t work then I won’t have enough money to leave my parents home and this city (which is extremely small!). If anyone has advice or encouragement I would appreciate that!

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

In regards to trying to find someone, the best thing you can do is get yourself out there in anything socially that you enjoy. Bars have all kinds of people in them. Acting classes have aspiring actors in them. As long as you stay open to people, and become friendly with them, some one will come down the pipe. As long as its something you enjoy, you immediately have a connection on some level with the person, and even though its not much, its a start. I dont know whats currently available in your town or your future town, but look around the internet is a great resource to find things to do. And good luck with your future move…. i dont know much about careers (as im not in one myself yet) but i know that a move can change alot and bring about new opportunities, and who knows? maybe if you end up in that acting class youll find yourself a man and a job!

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