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There is this girl that i have known since i was 6

and we have been good friends since that age but the past two years i have had strong feelings towards her and i want to tell her but i dont know how. i am afriad that she only sees me as a good friend but i dont know for sure because i have herd that she has some feelings towards me but i dont know if that is true either. i really want to tell her how i feel if someone has any advice i would be most greatful.

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how to tell a girl that you like her, how to get the girl of your dreams, Love, relationship help (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)

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dano offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Carlsbad, CA, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

actions speak louder than words as they say, attributing %55 of actual communication to body language. show her that you might be interested in more without having the awkward conversation. kinda in the same situation myself and just going with that and hoping for the best myself, but also being ultra slow/ conservative because she is such a good friend of mine and not worth losing as a friend for anything

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babii_expres offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

well before you just explode all this emotion on her hint that u like her first like say random not-too flirty things and if she takes in all ur verbal advances i would advise u too go ahead and marry her….but before doing that take her (or ask her out) and if you guys have the perfect “relationship chemistry” than ask her to be your….are you ready for it?…..girlfriend ( or significant other) whichever one you prefer, if u want a more detailed answer just say so (: good luck.

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Mas99 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

Well Gambit first thing is - where did you hear she liked you? Was it a close friend who told you that coz those whispers are usually true you know.
You could bring up the subject with her by saying people are talking about you 2 and see how she reacts.
If she got a b/f right now then this is not the time though. Dont put her in an impossible position.
Dont sit back and lose her though because she might not have a clue how you feel so you need to be a bit more affectionate around her. A bit more touchy feely and laughing and catching her eye - like how you’d flirt with another girl.
You’ve known her longer than any guy so you know what she likes - use that information, buy her little gifts and call her more often - step it up a bit.
Be careful though Gambit - you might get a girlfriend for a short time but if it all goes wrong you could be losing a friend. Just be sure this is what you want and not a dumb crush. - Mas

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