dating help: I was just curious but how much do guys really care about a women’s figure. - Help.com

I think a better question is What exactly do guys appreciate about in a womens figure?

I’m curious as well. But you shouldn’t hide your stomach - let it out! We all have flubber there.

Another guy putting his two cents in: Personality definately over looks. However that said fat, skinny, short, tall, blond, brunette, red hed, red, yellow, black, and white. Some girls just look like they don’t care about themselves, and it shows in their outward appearence. However I have seen a lot of attractive girls in all sorts of shapes, sizes, and ethnic backgrounds.

Let me ask you a question. Would you date a guy who has minor disabilities, no drivers license, hates taking buses, 5 foot 2, has a beard, has a dandruff problem, unemployed, still lives with his mom, is balding up at the top but has hair every where else, and has a small …… well, you know?

How does this man get anywhere?! I mean he doesn’t drive AND he hates buses. On that note alone I’d say no. Too high maintenance…

He lives downtown in a small town and everything is walking distance. The reason why he hates buses is because he has weak knees, and is too short to grab unto the things at the top. So if it is standing room only. He’s screwed.

Well he’s clearly a pessimist then.

Im a guy the only thing a nice figure does for me is get me attracted to a girl but without a personality nothing ever real will happen between the two of you. So the only thing a nice figure does it sttract men but if you dont have a good personality youll never find yourself in a meaningful relationship

well…….i think alot of guys think that a little bit is a turn on….. but in my opinion i think a relationship will only work if there is some physical attraction ya know? and the eyes and heart dont lie, so you will be able to know if your man is truely attracted to u or not…….i personally wouldn’t worry about it