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Would you date a skinny boy?

I’ve always had the complex that no one is going to date/have a relationship with me because I’m skinny. 110 lbs :-)) I kinda not look that skinny and I like me being like that, but I don’t know how would a girl think on me. I’ve almost never saw on the streets skinny guys (as skinny as me) with girls. ****..

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Miss Jessica Bunny offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (1 minute after post)

I’ve got friends that go out with skinny guys, but personally I like big rugby player type guys.

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alex_man12345678 offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

So I’ve got no chance, heh :-))

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Miss Jessica Bunny offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Not with me no. Also I only go out with men at least 5 years older than me, so you were never in the running lol. But like I said, I’ve got friends whose boyfriends are dead skinny, it’s just not my preference.

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6 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Guy, we have been through this before… OK What you want to really hear… Your a hot guy….. Women on this site love you.. Your the coolest person on this site…. You are articulate… You are fantastic… Your not skinny…You are the best…. Csan we move on now….

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alex_man12345678 offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I don’t want to date you. But I guess because of the protective need most of the girls would think twice liking a skinny guy :-))

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (9 minutes after post)

^^ now I feel happy. I’m going to dance a little :-))

What’s the point? Live your life, if you don’t my questions just vanish.

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Miss Jessica Bunny offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (9 minutes after post)

alex_man12345678 wrote:
I don’t want to date you. But I guess because of the protective need most of the girls would think twice liking a skinny guy :-))

I didn’t say you did, but you based your answer on what I said my preference was not on what I said my friends were into, so I responded to that.

Girls like guys because of personality too, if you’re needy and whiny then you’re not going to seem very protective whereas you can be slim and confident and be like their knight in shining armor.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

^^ so love it’s all about protection and ancient powerful on the male side. Not funny!

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Miss Jessica Bunny offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

What? We’re talking about a TINY part of what makes up a person. You’re not going to go out with someone because they are JUST protective, if you wanted that you’d get a dog.

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6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Ho, hum….. this is getting old

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alex_man12345678 offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

^ I was talking about relations. Because I guess most of the relations [ long durations ] are based on common characteristics: protective guy, powerful guy, oh, my guy can make this, this and this. If you are skinny [ as a guy ] and less powerful you can look NOT good in her eyes for a long relation, raising babies and so on.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (16 minutes after post)

^ what is that fat and muscular guy is more powerful [ as a personality ] than the skinny guy? Would you have a relation with the last one based on that?

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Miss Jessica Bunny offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (17 minutes after post)

alex_man12345678 wrote:
^ I was talking about relations. Because I guess most of the relations [ long durations ] are based on common characteristics: protective guy, powerful guy, oh, my guy can make this, this and this. If you are skinny [ as a guy ] and less powerful you can look NOT good in her eyes for a long relation, raising babies and so on.

That is such a ridiculous opinion I’m not even sure how to reply to it. You don’t get a boyfriend for what he can do for you. You’re with someone because you love them.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (19 minutes after post)

^ you love them for their personality but you only date a certain type [ fizical ] guys. Something is fishy here.

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6 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Guy, we have been through this before… OK What you want to really hear… Your a hot guy….. Women on this site love you.. Your the coolest person on this site…. You are articulate… You are fantastic… Your not skinny…You are the best…. Csan we move on now….

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alex_man12345678 offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (20 minutes after post)

spam in another place.

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Miss Jessica Bunny offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (22 minutes after post)

alex_man12345678 wrote:
^ you love them for their personality but you only date a certain type [ fizical ] guys. Something is fishy here.

I said I like big rugby player type guys. I didn’t say I only date a certain type, you asked what was the preference. That is my preference. It all comes in one big package, personality and looks. I’ve dated people strictly on personality and strictly on looks, the guy I’m with now isn’t the best looking guy I’ve ever been out with but I love him more than any other, we’ve been together for over two years too. So no, nothing ‘fishy’ there.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Chicks are getting pretty hefty nowadays. Just wait for a food crisis to finally hit us hard and you’ll be the male of choice once they start thinning down.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 6 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Skinny is way,way better than fat.To many fat people these day.
Its very unhealthy.Skinny is good.

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6 months ago (28 minutes after post)

I am a thin guy but have muscles all over… I work out running, lifting weights, and swimming, cycling… I couldnt give a rats *** if a women didnt like me because i am slim….

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 6 months ago (35 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I am a thin guy but have muscles all over… I work out running, lifting weights, and swimming, cycling… I couldnt give a rats *** if a women didnt like me because i am slim….

you wouldn’t give rats *** but what about some female ***.??

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6 months ago (37 minutes after post)

OOO baby dont get my hormones moving… slim jim back at you hun

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usurper offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (45 minutes after post)

Quite honestly - it depends how cool he is.

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An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (46 minutes after post)

spiratec9 wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I am a thin guy but have muscles all over… I work out running, lifting weights, and swimming, cycling… I couldnt give a rats *** if a women didnt like me because i am slim….

you wouldn’t give rats *** but what about some female ***.??

Ha ha for example - I would date a guy with that attitude if he was skinny.

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Anonymous #
6 months ago (59 minutes after post)

The way i see it is i am happy and content with my body,my life….I dont really need a women, and i dont go out looking, It would be nice to have a girlfriend,I am a man , but I dont go around like most sappy guys, chasing them.. Usually they come to me and if we have a lot in common we go for it, otherwise its no big deal…I have sooo much more then trying to be the right one for someone… Thats totally sappy to me…. I just like being me and if thats not good enough, who cares….

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 months after post)

You care to much about others opion so i don’t think any one will go out you

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